squaine123

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Not in this alone

2013 United States

One of the most difficult choices I have ever had to make. It brings on a multitude of emotions. I have one 8 year old child already who is my world and means everything to me. On one hand I feel I am terrible for giving up the chance to have another and on the other hand I feel I can not physically mentally or emotionally handle another as I am a single mom (in a committed relationship) who is responsible for the roof over our heads and everything that comes with it. My previous two abortions were with my son's dad who was abusive and controlling towards me before I left him.

Having an unwanted pregnancy is an overwhelming and emotionally draining experience. The option to have a medical abortion in the comfort of my home has taken a tremendous weight off of my shoulders.

This is my third medical abortion and while I am not proud of it I am supportive of it as a choice for women. Every woman has her own story and her own personal situation to consider with an unplanned pregnancy. Some people might say you are not responsible or that a real woman would find a way. The truth is that a real woman will assess her situation and consider every one involved in her situation and be strong enough to make a decision that she will be judged for and live with for the rest of her life regardless of which path she chooses.

How did other people react to your abortion?

Mostly supportive but they also acted like it should be kept a secret.

Liz

I cry. Going into the decision I was strong and certain that I wanted to have…

Machilla

“I had an abortion” will appear automatically, but please feel free to change…

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Jessi

No olvidemos, que nos haga crecer

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow

Newyor7891

I had an abortion

Tatá

Fiz um aborto com 8 semanas. Eu me envolvi com um colega de trabalho, por um…

Beth

No estaba 10% segura pero lo hice,
Yo aborte.

Felicia

I had an abortion, so that I could heal.

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Jane

I had 2 abortions

Lagard

Never had I thought I would go down this road someday

Anna Cavalcante

Olá, o meu nome é Anna, eu fiquei grávida aos 18 anos, e devido à minha idade

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