Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Netherlands

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

How did other people react to your abortion?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Dália

Eu li uns 100 depoimentos que me ajudaram muito ,então decidi escrever para…

Katie

Nie klasyczna wpadka. Brane pigulki nie zadzialaly. Za duzy miks z innymi…

LOLO

Made me who I am today

Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…

yerlina

mi decision.una eleccion

Agata

Jestem już przeszło 3 miesiące po aborcji farmakologicznej wykonanej w 6 tc. W…

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Viridiana Aguilar

I had an abortion

Ny

I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a…

qbAnchic

This will be my 5th abortion today. This is the first time I've do e it with…

Stephanie

at just 19 years old.

KB

Finding Healing

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

Lauren Jackson

I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…

Newyor7891

I had an abortion

Isabelle

Bom, estou escrevendo aqui pois os relatos de vocês que me deram forças. Eu não…

Ale

Muy difícil decisión

Marina

Nie będę opisywała o tym jak to się stało, że się dowiedziałam, każdy ma na to…

Catherine

I had an abortion when I needed it, hassle-free, legal, medically safe, and…

mayumi uehara

Fiz.não me arrependo e contei com a ajuda da ong, o que foi essencial para que…