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i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or if i ever want to have children and i didn't want a pregnancy at 16 to be a deciding factor for my future the second one i was 24 and i honestly had a lot going on my life from financial depression to just life in general and i didn't want to add more to my plate, yes i have decided that i want to have children but i want them to come to steady life

2019 South Africa

grieving disappointed peaceful irresponsible relieved angry guilty afraid

with medicines in a clinic or hospital with surgery

the first i was too emotional and felt guilty for taking a life but grew to understand my decisions

financial issues my education my age (too young or old) my personal reasons for not wanting a child mental health reasons

How did other people react to your abortion?

my friends and family respected my decision but my boyfriend was devasted as he felt he was ready and well the second time it between me and my boyfriend and it was a mutual decision

legal

no religion