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It was sad but necessary

2006 Australia

I cried for months on end. To this day, I feel sad and at the time I felt terrible religious guilt. It was a silly contraceptive error and if I'd never been pregnant, I would have been happy not to ever get pregnant. It's good now though, to write about my abortion without judgement. Before the abortion I thought "I could never do that". But, Even though I hated doing it, I'm eternally greatful abortion was safe, legal and affordable. I would have brought an unwanted child into a life of poverty. It would have been an only child as well. I grew up on a bad family and the last thing I wanted to do was bring someone else up on a bad situation. The whole experience really woke me up - I could never again judge others for making mistakes or getting into trouble - and no matter what decision a woman makes I could never ever judge her. My one suggestion to others would be: don't freak out like I did - get the counselling if you want it before you go ahead with the abortion.

We were young, old, fat, thin, rough, posh, alone or with sad looking partners - all of us were on a compassionately managed conveyor belt through the clinic. It was efficient and sad. I wish now I'd booked in for the counselling they offered me but inward in such a blind panic that I just wanted it over with.

I was so trapped - no family support, 3 month old relationship, contract at horrible employer about to end, too old really to have a 1st child, and no house of my own. And the father did not want it. It was a terrible time.

Did the illegality of your abortion affect your feelings?

No.

How did other people react to your abortion?

My partner with relief - he never wanted it; Some friends were great, they were kind and understanding; Other people judged me - friendships ended.

Vittoria

Me siento vacía ...

DeOne

Its gonna be the first time i speak about my abortion.
I was just a 25 yo girl

Nicole

No estaba segura que iba ser de mi futuro.

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Leah Jeck

Aku pertama kali kenal sex, tahun 2013 semester 2 tahun awal kuliah, dengan…

Nonaka

A exatamente um mês atrás realizei o aborto, sou residente do Japão, apesar de…

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Daniela

yo aborte y no me siento culpable.

Lila bleu

J’ai avorté
Mes sentiments sont très confus.
J’aurai aimé le garder, mais les…

Lise

I had an abortion and I don't regret it. It was a hard decision but one I knew…

Dita

I choose abortion hard at the beginning but I know this is the right choice

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Kojika

Jestem w stałym związku od 7lat. Mam kochającego mężczyznę i mała córeczkę.

maly min

Si, yo una vez estuve embarazada, de eso no hace mucho y cuando me entere llore…

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

Anne

Que alivio!

Karen vargas

Yo Decidí