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It was sad but necessary

2006 Australia

I cried for months on end. To this day, I feel sad and at the time I felt terrible religious guilt. It was a silly contraceptive error and if I'd never been pregnant, I would have been happy not to ever get pregnant. It's good now though, to write about my abortion without judgement. Before the abortion I thought "I could never do that". But, Even though I hated doing it, I'm eternally greatful abortion was safe, legal and affordable. I would have brought an unwanted child into a life of poverty. It would have been an only child as well. I grew up on a bad family and the last thing I wanted to do was bring someone else up on a bad situation. The whole experience really woke me up - I could never again judge others for making mistakes or getting into trouble - and no matter what decision a woman makes I could never ever judge her. My one suggestion to others would be: don't freak out like I did - get the counselling if you want it before you go ahead with the abortion.

We were young, old, fat, thin, rough, posh, alone or with sad looking partners - all of us were on a compassionately managed conveyor belt through the clinic. It was efficient and sad. I wish now I'd booked in for the counselling they offered me but inward in such a blind panic that I just wanted it over with.

I was so trapped - no family support, 3 month old relationship, contract at horrible employer about to end, too old really to have a 1st child, and no house of my own. And the father did not want it. It was a terrible time.

Did the illegality of your abortion affect your feelings?

No.

How did other people react to your abortion?

My partner with relief - he never wanted it; Some friends were great, they were kind and understanding; Other people judged me - friendships ended.

Karolina

Miałam aborcję.

Constanza

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Aleja

Yo aborte. No fue una decisión fácil. No entraré en detalles del porqué tome la…

D.G

Aborto Simples e tranquilo com Cytotec

Contra o aborto até precisar dele

gladys

yo aborte ayer y aca estoy,un dia despues, contando mi experiencia para quien…

Paulette De los reyes

Decidi lo mejor para las dos

Melodie

J'ai avorté il y a 4 ans et demi

elizabet campos

aborte hace 3 semanas y tenia un embarazo de 3 semanas nose aun si fue la…

K

I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

KEP

I was 44 years old and already had 2 children. The pregnancy was an accident…

Marghe

À la limite du délai légal, j'ai avorté à 18 ans et 1 mois. J'étais soutenue…

Karen vargas

Yo Decidí

Maru

Se puede acceder de forma legal

Letícia

Terça, 08 de agosto de 2017, 8:00 h.
Foi esse dia que eu descobri que estava…

anita nyaera

I had three abortions latest being 2018.I feel guilty but I had no choice.

Typh N

C'est une décision difficile qui fait mal au corps au coeur à l'âme mais la…