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2018 Germany

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

How did other people react to your abortion?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Marina

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Luna

Deu tudo certo.

Clarice

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Olivia

J'ai avorté et je me sens très bien

Typh N

C'est une décision difficile qui fait mal au corps au coeur à l'âme mais la…

Anne Jellinek

I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8…

lolita

fui libre respecto esta decision

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This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Maria

Sou dona de mim.

Jennifer

Mi cuerpo, mi decisión

keira

Chcę mieć kontrolę. Zrobiłam to i NIE ŻAŁUJĘ.

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it was safe and very effective...was 38days late.i follwed women on web within…

Camila Gray

I had an abortion,im having my abortion.

Kah

Decisões difíceis exigem coragem.

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Raíra

Bom, tenho 27 anos e em 2018 resolvi fazer uma segunda graduacao. Namoro tem 4…

Daniela

No era el momento, no me arrepiento.