Sonja

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2019 Finland

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

How did other people react to your abortion?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

Leah

I was twenty years old, terrified, and completely alone.

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

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Naad

I had an abortion when I was 23 years old

Luna

Deu tudo certo.

Sharon

I don't regret my abortion.

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

G.

Zawsze miałam nieregularny okres, także tydzień spóźnienia nie dawał mi…

miriam la desesperacion

Con cytotex Y aun no se si fue lo mejor, pero era necesario

Laura

Desde que confirmé el embarazo, pensé cómo podría llevar a cabo el aborto.

Daisy

Miałam aborcję. I nie jestem z tego dumna.
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Fallen Angel

I had the SAFEST ABORTION even in the PHILIPPINES through womenonweb.org.

Nami Tibbers

Não vi outra opção. Então tomei coragem e optei por um aborto.

Daniela

No era el momento, no me arrepiento.

Jos

Era lo mejor

ana maria Duque

I had an abortion but this wasn't easy I was very afraid, but i never regret…

Jen

I had an abortion and I'm so pleased that I had that option. I was only 18…

enfermera

Antes de hacer cualquier cosa infórmate muy bien para tomar la decisión…

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida