Sonja

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2019 Finland

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

How did other people react to your abortion?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

Marcela

Es más una historia de amor, que de un aborto pero posiblemente en algo te…

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Guid

Não me arrependo!

Francisca

yo encauce mi destino...

Naad

I had an abortion when I was 23 years old

Miih Be

Dia 9 de Setembro de 2019 tive relação sexual desprotegida com meu noivo, ele…

Cela B

Você precisa fazer uma auto avaliação e ver o que é melhor pra você. Não…

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

ROCÍO

Lo logré....estoy tranquila

Zosia

Dowiedziałam się o mojej niechcianej ciąży podczas wizyty kontrolnej u…

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

Layla

No dia 28 de outubro de 2018, fazia uma semana que eu vomitava todos os dias ao…

laura

Mi experiencia

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.

Daniela

No era el momento, no me arrepiento.

Magui

La mejor decisión

magdalena

Miałam aborcje. Dzięki pomocy i wyrozumiałości women on web uda mi się to.

Eléonore Delmas

I had an abortion