Sonja

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2019 Finland

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

How did other people react to your abortion?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

Daniela

yo aborte y no me siento culpable.

Fabiana

y te lo cuento

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Claudiagyn

Aconteceu comigo.

Anna K.

nie żałuję,

Fernanda

Yo aborté y soy una chica libre

AS

I am having an abortion as I am writing this, at home with cytotec…

Ale

Sin remordimientos

Gemma

The best decision for me.

Nami

porque mi situación económica era pésima, al igual que la de mi pareja, ninguno…

Maru

Se puede acceder de forma legal

Cindy Rios

Yo aborte porque no estaba en el momento adecuado para tener un hijo, mi madre…

Weronika

Dzien w którym potwierdzila sie moja ciaza był jak wyrocznia... Mam dużo swoich…

CPA

Olá, tenho 24 anos e fiz um aborto com aproximadamente 8 semanas. Fiz questão…

Charlotte Sigler

I had an abortion

sogoodtobebad stassia

Dziewczyny ! nie bójcie się ! nie taki diabeł straszny jak go malują. Jeżeli…

ROCÍO

Lo logré....estoy tranquila