Sarah

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Because I could barely provide for the child I had already.

United States

I've been a single parent since I was pregnant with my son at 17. We moved from Brasil to the US when he was 2 months old. When my son was 8 I was in an "on again, off again" relationship, I found out I was pregnant again. My boyfriend at the time did pressure me, but ultimately it was my decision. I was financially unstable, on government assistance, and about to lose my house. I took a day off work for the appointment, I had gone for a pre-consult beforehand. The staff was friendly, my boyfriend waited in the waiting room as they took me in. The doctor was distant and cold. I was given a local anesthesia. There was a map of the world on the ceiling, I stared at that the whole time. I felt some discomfort, mostly pressure, kind of like a long uncomfortable pap smear. I went to the recovery room with several other women. We went for lunch, then a massage, then home to rest. When I went for my follow up about a week later, all was well. I asked for a copy of my ultrasound. I was only about 9 weeks along, but I named it Hannah. I keep her in a book with a page over it, so I only see her when I want to. I think about her from time to time. But to ensure a good life for my living child, I had to make a difficult choice. And, as hard as it was, ultimately, the best choice for both me and my son.

How did other people react to your abortion?

Supportive

Beatriz

Yo aborté y fue una experiencia de empoderamiento.

justin ..

NIGDY NIE MÓW NIGDY! ..kiedyś powiedziałam sobie, że aborcja nigdy nie będzie…

Wer

Tomé la decisión correcta, tal vez no justa, pero correcta.

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

J D

My now husband and I got pregnant the first time we slept together. We were…

Nadia

Le habia escrito una blanca cancion del amor entre una nube y un pez volador.

Chinchulina

I come from a country where abortion is legal but due to my personal…

Alex

Never felt so relieved in my life. I owe everything to planned parenthood and…

María

Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…

Margarita

Dicen que interrumpí una vida, yo siento que lo que hice fue continuar con la…

Ezzah candra

Untuk kebaikan semua anggota keluarga

Dani

Because I NEEDED TO DO IT!
Some may say I was selfish, other may say I'm going…

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Fran

YO DECIDÍ

fiore fiol

Yo me practique un aborto con citotec porque acababab de tener una bebe y…

Lily

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Abril Violeta

cuando tenía 24 años, recién terminaba la licenciatura, estaba desempleada, en…

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…