Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Netherlands

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Lucyna

Moja historia o ciąży, której nie mogłam donosić

Leonor Leonor

Mi madre quería nietos... Yo solo quiero dejar de recriminarme.

Felicia

I had an abortion, so that I could heal.

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Jay

I had a medical abortion when i was 18 years old at 5 weeks pregnant. Yes, it…

thya thya

hari ini harusnya usia kandungan sy menjelang 12 minggu , sy gagal pertahankan…

Paloma

Decidida, sin culpa ni arrepentimiento, soy fiel a mi misma.

Dawn & Kevin

I had two abortions

Stormy-Hayden Skylar

I don't regret my abortion in the slightest.

Bryann Turner

It was the right decision for me at this time.

Violet

la verdad nunca paso por mi mente que a mi me sucedería algo así, siempre pensé…

Mabel

Mabel

Joice

Já é difícil criar 2 filhos, não conseguiria lidar com um terceiro..

Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

María

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