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I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a restraining order against the father 2 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got verbally abused and car stolen a month before finding out I was pregnant. After 6 years and 2 children I would think I wanted better for myself but I guess I don't but I didn't have his daughter. I wanted a girl so bad but I had an abortion. Hopefully I can find a man that doesn't abuse me and know how to be patient with me because of what he did. I had an abortion because I wanted better for my daughter even if I think I don't for myself.

2020 United States

It was unreal. I expected the pain and blood but I didn't comes to terms with what I was giving up. Until my daughter at 9 weeks and 3 days laid on my right thumb under my tattoo of my first name. The feelings when our eyes connected was terrifying. Such a dark and scary time to have to flush down the daughter I always wanted down the toilet. I didn't expect to see the fetus but I did. I couldn't do anything but scream then quickly cover my mouth because in the next room was my 3 son's and the niece of my children's father. He still doesn't know or I haven't told him that I terminated that pregnancy.

Did the illegality of your abortion affect your feelings?

No

How did other people react to your abortion?

I only told 5 people. None which are blood related. They were supportive knowing the history of my relationship.

Alice

Nunca imaginei que tomaria essa decisão, mas foi melhor no momento...

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

Micaela Mica

Debo decir que no me senti ni culpable ni arrepentida en ningún momento al…

carolina

Interrumpi mi embarazo de un mes y medio

Grace Grace

Y no existe arrepentimiento.

Aysella

Abortions are not fun !

AS

I am having an abortion as I am writing this, at home with cytotec…

Lola

Mi decisión

Valéria

Espero que minha experiência possa ajudar quem vai passar pela mesma situação

Sara

Tome la decisión ya que anteriormente (a los 15 años) ya había tenido un…

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

Tigrunia kinga

Dowiadujac sie że jestem w ciaży po raz drugi doznałam szoku odrazu naszła mie…

Sarah Menezes

Abortamento

Madison

Una lucha constante.

Camilla Ferraz

Fiz um aborto porque tenho o direito de decidir meu futuro e minha história.

Jedna z Tysiecy

Kiedy nie chcesz dziecka, i wiesz, ze tak musi byc.

gdy twoj ex partner z…