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I just had my 3rd son 4 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got a restraining order against the father 2 months prior finding out I was pregnant. I got verbally abused and car stolen a month before finding out I was pregnant. After 6 years and 2 children I would think I wanted better for myself but I guess I don't but I didn't have his daughter. I wanted a girl so bad but I had an abortion. Hopefully I can find a man that doesn't abuse me and know how to be patient with me because of what he did. I had an abortion because I wanted better for my daughter even if I think I don't for myself.

2020 United States

It was unreal. I expected the pain and blood but I didn't comes to terms with what I was giving up. Until my daughter at 9 weeks and 3 days laid on my right thumb under my tattoo of my first name. The feelings when our eyes connected was terrifying. Such a dark and scary time to have to flush down the daughter I always wanted down the toilet. I didn't expect to see the fetus but I did. I couldn't do anything but scream then quickly cover my mouth because in the next room was my 3 son's and the niece of my children's father. He still doesn't know or I haven't told him that I terminated that pregnancy.

Did the illegality of your abortion affect your feelings?

No

How did other people react to your abortion?

I only told 5 people. None which are blood related. They were supportive knowing the history of my relationship.

Maca

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Andy

Decidí sobre mi futuro.

Nicole

No estaba segura que iba ser de mi futuro.

Hope

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Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

enfermera

Antes de hacer cualquier cosa infórmate muy bien para tomar la decisión…

Ninjanu

Friday, July 13th, 2012
9:03AM.
Hmm, he was supposed to be here by now… I sigh…

Belen

Mi experiencia con Oxaprost. 7 semanas.

amelia belle

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mela

Vivire por ti mi pequeño angel

Emilamontreal

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L

My abortions defined my life choices for decades

Estefanía

Si se lo pudiera decir a alguien sin que me juzgue no me sentiría así

Vale

Mi hijo se transformó en una estrella.
Ahora veo a los demás de otra manera.
A…

Delia

I had an abortion and it changed my life, for better and for worse.