Anne Jellinek

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I had two abortions in my life: one when I was 21 and newly married and one 8 years later at the end of our marriage. This was in the 80s and 90s. I was lucky in that I had no particular difficulty in either case (except for the expense, I had to borrow the money for the first abortion). My experience is what it should be like for every woman. I recognized that I was not able to have children either emotionally or financially nor did I want to be a mother. Nobody in my family felt any other way, everyone was supportive. Nobody was outside the clinics protesting (which is a pretty mild word for what they do). Both clinics that I went to were efficient, clean and staffed by good people. I share this experience because, as I said before, that's how it should be for everyone. Denying women access to reproductive rights is a crime against humanity, nothing less. I'm not only peaceful with my decision but in fact I'm proud of it. Both times, it was the best thing for all concerned. No woman should be forced to do anything with her body that she doesn't choose and I'm grateful that I wasn't put through that.

1984 United States

I am proud of choosing not to have a child when it would have been wrong for everyone. I am completely unapologetic. I have no negative feelings about it whatsoever.

In the 80s and 90s there was no access to medication abortion, which would have been nice. I underwent d & c which was fine, not a problem, however a less intrusive method is better.

How did other people react to your abortion?

I was supported by friends and family. Nobody argued with me or attempted to interfere which is as it should be for every woman.

Constanza

Aborto seguro, entorno amoroso

Pegah

I had an abortion and now I feel as strong as before!

Annelise

A maternidade como função obrigatória não é maternidade. Não é linda. Ser mãe…

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Joanna

Moje życie to moje wybory. / My life is my choices.

Katarzyna

Nie mogłam mieć dziecka z kilku powodów: jeszcze się uczę, chłopak w ogóle nie…

Serena

I had an abortion

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…

Lindseymae Mckay

My name is Lindseymae McKay. I will be 32 years old next week. I have a 6 year…

Natasha

I had come off the contraceptive pill as it had me feeling un well, we thought…

Ana

El día de ayer aborté

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

Gaby

No me arrepiento

Priscilla Silva

Oi, bom é tanta coisa pra falar ... mas vamos lá! Abortei em Março dia 17

Lisal M. C

It was a big decided that I made in my life. I had a complexity relationship…

luna oscura

¿En serio estoy embarazada?