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I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Allemagne

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

Ang iligalidad ng iyong pagpapalaglag ay nakakaapekto sa iyong damdamin?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Ano ang reaksyon ng ibang tao sa iyong pagpapalaglag?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Xara

I had Three Abortions.

Aneta

Witam gdy tylko dowiedzialam sie że jestem w ciąży zalamałam się bo dwojke…

poo

나는 임신중절을 했다

Dawn & Kevin

I had two abortions

Pam Map

Yo lo hice no me arrepiento para nada y agradezco a este sitio por haberme…

Matka Winna

Moja historia

Kah

Decisões difíceis exigem coragem.

Tina

I had an abortion when I was 15 years old. After my abortion, I went to college

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

Daniela

My perception of so many things changed a lot with this experience and realised…

Paula *

Yo acompañe a mi hermana quien pasó por este proceso, siempre fui una persona…

Melina

Yo aborte con oxaprost

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

M

Cześć. Mam 21 lat. Byłam w około 2- 3 tygodniu ciąży. Jestem już po aborcji…

K

I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

Lauren Jackson

I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…

Lucie

I had more than one abortions. I made the choices because I care about the…

Regina Kunst

Aku memutuskan untuk aborsi karena pada saat itu, aku masih menempuh S3 dan…