2017 New Zealand
I had an argument with my partner the afternoon before I had it. We kind of resolved it but I didn't want to wait any longer to have the abortion. So I had it that evening and my partner just zoned out. I felt so alone. I felt so angry that I was doubled over on the couch and he would ask me to get him a drink etc. I was so angry that he didn't understand what my body was going through and that he didn't show me any sympathy.
I was terrified as I had no family or friends around as I live on the other side of the world and have no-one here. I felt empty and teary the days after because my partner did not realize the trauma that had occurred in the bathroom and in my body. We moved house the same weekend I had the abortion and was expected to get on with things - so I did. I've kept myself so busy since that I still feel like I need a couple of days to mourn. I regret that I flushed the fetus down the toilet. I panicked and didn't think through what I would actually do with it. If I could do it again, I would've kept it and buried it for closure.
How did other people react to your abortion?
My partner sat on the couch, asked how I was from time to time and played on his laptop. He got angry with me in the days after about silly things and wouldn't talk about it. I told him that I wouldn't pressure him to speak about it but told him I would like to know one day.
Fue una decisión de vida
I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My…
I made the best decision for me
ABORTAR ESTÁ BIEN
I had an abortion
I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.
Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade
Con cytotex Y aun no se si fue lo mejor, pero era necesario
낙태 당시에는 신체적으로 힘들었지만 지금은 컨디션이 평상시로 돌아왔습니다
getting thru the pain.
Me siento vacía ...
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