Gemma

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The best decision for me.

2015 United Kingdom

I am thankful to live in a country where I can exercise rights & choice over my body. I was in a position where I could not only decide to have an abortion, but it was actually accessible to me too.

Horrendous - my partner and I have been together since June 2014. I had been using The Copper IUD initially, however, it caused me numerous problems so I removed it. I decided to start using Natural Family Planning, for two reasons: to prevent pregnancy (we were both STI tested) and; to track my cycle (I was being investigated for Endometriosis). However, over a year in, I miss calculated and I ended up getting pregnant. My partner commented on my period being late, so a couple of days later I tested. It was positive. I was pregnant. I went to work. Overwhelmed. Not believing it. I took another test at lunch time. Still positive. Still pregnant. I went to the doctor, I tested again. Still positive. Still pregnant. I booked a termination there and then. I went home and told my partner. "I'm pregnant. I've booked an appointment at the clinic". The scan confirmed I was 4 weeks pregnant. I booked a medical for a week later. I went in for the first tablet and two days later for the second set. "It'll be like a heavy period" they said, "go home and rest they said." I went home. I rested. 36 hours later I was fitting on the floor, diarrhea, vomitting, pain, bleeding. An ambulance was called and I was taken into accident and emergency. I was given gas & air, codeine, diclofenac, morphine and a paracetamol & fluid drip. I was screaming in pain. Left on a gynae ward with (visibly) pregnant women - who assumed I was having a miscarriage - I had to suffer in pain. Scared, lonely and like I was to blame. The termination hadn't worked, and I had to wait for 3 days nil by mouth waiting for a D&C. I was eventually taken into surgery and the nightmare was neasr to ending. I woke up from my surgery, feeling lighter. Both physically & emotionally. I was fucking elated. I wanted to go home that night, be away from the judgement I felt and be in my own bed. I do not regret my abortion. Having my abortion was the absolute best decision for me. My partner. And the foteus. There is no way we are in a position to continue a pregnancy. I in no way regret my abortion, I regret the unfortunate circumstances in which it happened though.

How did other people react to your abortion?

Supportive

Camila

E foi uma das decisões mais difíceis da minha vida .
Oi meninas,eu tenho 26 anos…

Sierra

I had to get an abortion after my Skyla IUD was placed improperly or slipped. I…

Flor de Luna

Piloto automático, pero no me arrepiento

Chispi

¿decisión o "me hice a la idea"?

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

Emi

Fiz um aborto porque adoro crianças e acredito que só podemos deixar um…

Edyta

Nie wstydzę się tego, że jestem teraz szczęśliwa!!!

Louise Harper

I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9…

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

Pam Map

Yo lo hice no me arrepiento para nada y agradezco a este sitio por haberme…

Susy

Yo interrumpí mi embarazo...

Nicole

No estaba segura que iba ser de mi futuro.

yvette

I had an abortion in the US a few years ago. I think it is important for all of…

Frances

Feeling like myself again

Constanza

Aborto seguro, entorno amoroso

Marilyn Ramos Morenita. !

Yo decido, yo hago lo que quiero con mi cuerpo y nadie tiene porque decirme…

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