Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

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I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

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One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Julia

Postanowiłam się podzielić swoją historią, ponieważ gdy szukałam informacji na…

Issy

Tome una decision

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

M

At first i didn't know i was pregnant until i noticed i was vomiting a lot, but…

Catarina Fernando

Tenho 18 anos e os meus pais nunca iriam aceitar que eu tivesse um filho com…

Ary

Yo he abortado 4 veces.

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

Susy

Yo interrumpí mi embarazo...

Leonor Leonor

Mi madre quería nietos... Yo solo quiero dejar de recriminarme.

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Bree

It was the right decision just hard than i thought it would to deal with

Georgina

Punto y coma.

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

Dora

Eu estava calma, mas um pouco..'medrosa'? talvez? Não sei se era um bem um medo…

Flor de Luna

Piloto automático, pero no me arrepiento

Lucy

No me arrepiento

XHTarv

Too selfish, and ok with that for now.

Carla

Meu nome não é esse. Não posso me expor, não posso dizer demais. Fico no…