Ewa Izabela

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I am pro-choice

2005 Reino Unido (nascido em Poland)

It was a hard and extremely difficult decision, and I had a lot of doubts, trying to find my way. Today I’m sure that was a right decision, and I don’t regret it, but I regret deeply that I had to loose a child. I was sad and crying for long time – as we are sad after someone loved died or left for ever, and we cannot help it. But I was right deciding that I wasn’t able to have a child at that moment.

I had my abortion in London, at Marie Stopes, where everyone was very professional, and supporting. My pregnancy was very early – 3,5 weeks, so I had just the pills. Normally the women have strong cramps and a lot of blood after them, but I didn’t. I was extremely stressed because of whole situation, and the night before taking pills I had cramps, and a lot of blood, and I thought it was a kind of miscarriage. So after pills nothing happened, no cramps, and almost no blood.

I had a boyfriend, who told me he was infertile. We were planning to adopt children in the future. I don’t know if he really meant that, or was just lying, but obviously he wasn’t infertile. When I told him I’m pregnant, he said he wasn’t going to stay with me, and he wanted me to abort, he left and stopped contacting me or answering my calls. I was shocked and destroyed by the offensive and extremely cruel way of treating me by someone, who before pretended to love me. I went through all possibilities to see if I’m able to have this child, and I decided that I’m not strong enough on my own (I don’t have supportive family, and my economical situation was quite bad).

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I am Polish, and for last 3 years I have been living and working in UK, where the abortion is legal. It was a great stress to face the abortion situation on my own (no support from the partner or family), and if I had an additional pressure from the legal order, I would feel in a lot bigger oppression. It was a great help and relief for me – while undertaking my decision – to know that I have a choice and don’t have to have a baby, and I was lucky not to face this situation in Poland, where the abortion is still illegal.

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

I was quite on my own, and had only one friend, who knew and supported me, which I'm very grateful for.

Alice

Nunca imaginei que tomaria essa decisão, mas foi melhor no momento...

pam carol

Yo aborte

Mariana

Esta es mi historia: Tengo 35 años y 3 hijos, dos nenas y un varón de 6, 3 y 1…

Gina

Porque no era el momento indicado y los anticonceptivos fallaron.

C123

CRÓNICAS DE UNA MUJER QUE DECIDIÓ NO TRAER UN HIJO A ESTE MUNDO...

Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.

M. .

Fiz um aborto e me sinto aliviada. Agradeço muito a toda a equipe do Women on…

Leonor Leonor

Mi madre quería nietos... Yo solo quiero dejar de recriminarme.

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

enfermera

Antes de hacer cualquier cosa infórmate muy bien para tomar la decisión…

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

Marcella

Aos 18 anos tive minha primeira experiência com meu namorado,Como tdo…

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

Morrigan

I don't regret it. It was one of the wisest decisions I ever made in my life. I'…

Luka

Hice lo mejor que pude, estando bajo toda la presión del mundo.

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.

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Sara

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