Hattie Ladd

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I have had two abortions. The first one was when I was 20 and the second when I was 22, and both times I was around 7 weeks pregnant. I didn't want to have children, I was too young. Though it wasn't an easy thing to go through and it caused me a lot of upset, I've never regretted it. My heart goes out to all those who aren't permitted to make that choice as easily as I could.

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I want to add that both times I was pregnant I felt like this thing was taking over my body that I didn't want it there - this heaviness in my belly that was leading to one certain, inevitable thing - a baby - and my body was screaming out to make it stop. During the days that I waited for an abortion I felt trapped and unhappy. In the future when I do make the decision to have children, I want to feel joyful that I'm pregnant, and that I choose to have child freely, safely and happily.

The first abortion I had was surgical and it was awful. As I was going under general anaesthetic the doctors were laughing and joking about, one was trying on a silly hat and shooting something into the bin like a game..it was weird and surreal and there was nothing I could do about it because a few seconds later I was conked out. I woke up in a room of girls and women, some crying, either with pain or anguish. I wanted to go and see my boyfriend who was waiting downstairs but I wasn't allowed, then got taken from waiting room to waiting room till I had calmed down from the experience, and came out feeling numb. I felt like I wasn't allowed to deal with the emotions I was feeling, and it made them a lot harder to come to terms with. The second abortion I had was a medical abortion. I took some pills, and basically had a big period whilst taking a few painkillers. I was safe and comfortable at home.

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Friends are totally fine about it, my mum was supportive and caring but I haven't spoken to the rest of my family about it. My boyfriend at the time felt confused and I think he wanted to feel like the decision was his as well, so he felt upset that I had made up my mind without him.

Josefina Navas

A diferencia de muchas mujeres, yo al enterarme de que estaba embarazada y que…

Nami Tibbers

Não vi outra opção. Então tomei coragem e optei por um aborto.

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Suzanne

I made the best decision for me

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Susie

I'M NOT SORRY.

Ka

O dono do meu corpo e do meu destino sou eu, e não a sociedade hipócrita e…

M C

Fiz um aborto de aproximadamente 4 semanas e tomei o cytotec que o amigo da…

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Dani

Aborto a las 4 semanas, perdóname mi ángel.

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Macarena

Yo aborte , con oxapros en Buenos Aires tengo 24 años

Maria Lopez

pensando en que dirán

Anna Cavalcante

Olá, o meu nome é Anna, eu fiquei grávida aos 18 anos, e devido à minha idade

Daniela

Y lo volvería a hacer, habia terminado con mi ex pololoy el era super…

Lucy Bennett

I was almost 5 months pregnant and I had no idea. I had just turned 16 and me…

katrina nicole

the only time i look back is to say thank god