Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Holandia

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

Dominika

Miałam aborcję, udało się i nie żałuję.

Elena

No fue tan terrible.

Alice

Bom, há algumas semanas eu já vinha desconfiando de uma gravidez, embora não…

LOLO

Made me who I am today

Fernanda

Descobri que estava grávida no dia do meu aniversário, na época, sem nenhum…

Imgoingtobeokay

It's 2:25AM as I write this. I had two pills of misoprostol at 11PM. Been…

Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…

Ezzah candra

Untuk kebaikan semua anggota keluarga

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

Gabriela

Você não está sozinha!

Ilis

Aliviada y triste pero no arrepentida

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Mayra

Yo aborté a las 7 semanas y fue la mejor decisión.

KEP

I was 44 years old and already had 2 children. The pregnancy was an accident…

Rachel

I had an abortion. And I would do it again, if I was me at that time back then…

Key

I was too careless after meeting a guy when I was in a vulnerable period and…