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2018 Niemcy

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Fran

yo aborte, fue la decisión correcta

Vandalize

Já fiz quatro: 2004, 2005, 2009 e 2015

Frances

Feeling like myself again

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Anna

Nigdy nie sądziłam, że to powiem ale tak, miałam aborcję.
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Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Lise

I had an abortion and I don't regret it. It was a hard decision but one I knew…

M

First, I want to thank "Women on Web" for making this abortion possible.

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.

Magdalena Kozakiewicz

I had an abortion

Ono Kin

Really worked, except for suspicion from customs

Nathalia

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Adriana

Myślałam, że będzie gorzej, na szczęście cały czas była ze mną moja druga…

Eli

Difícil decisión

Lindseymae Mckay

My name is Lindseymae McKay. I will be 32 years old next week. I have a 6 year…

Natália

Estava grávida de quase 12 semanas.