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2018 Niemcy

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Anula

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Eryka

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Lucie

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Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Raíra

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Vivi Lili

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mica

Yo aborté y no me arrepiento ni un segundo de haberlo hecho.

Caroline

Never had any regrets

Ann

Moja historia jest podobna do innych. Niechciana ciąża, nie zadziałała…

Maria Madalena

Fiz um aborto e me sinto muito, muito aliviada!!!

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Emily Mars

O pesadelo de uma gravidez indesejada.

Jess

I had two...it was not a hard decision, and I'm glad I did it. Now, I'm a…

Fernanda

Descobri que estava grávida no dia do meu aniversário, na época, sem nenhum…

Ana

Mis decisiones son las mejores porque son mías.

Charlotte Sigler

I had an abortion

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

Yana

I had an abortion-it was a difficult decision...