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Made me who I am today

2006 Stany Zjednoczone

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Elisa Isalia

Stosowałam przez dwa lata tabletki anty. Wszystko było ok doczasu az pewnego…

Marta M.

Dokonałam aborcji

Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.

Francis

Una decisión consciente de vida

pam carol

Yo aborte

Jos

Era lo mejor

Anastasia

Hola chicas. Bueno yo quedé embarazada a los 17 años. Recién empezaba mi…

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

wiki Kosik

Korzystaj z życia..Na dziecko, przyjdzie odpowiedni czas..

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Yasmin Lara

Bom,eu encontrei vários relatos e quis deixar o meu bom eu tenho só 17 anos e…

Lauren Jackson

I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

sorrow

Najtragiczniejsze doświadczenie w życiu...


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