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2006 Stany Zjednoczone

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Someone Great

It wasn’t the easiest thing, but it was the best thing I could have done for…

Maree

It was sad but necessary

Ewa Izabela

I am pro-choice

Nichole Jeffers

Being allergic to latex I became pregnant multiple times before I was 20 having…

Dawn & Kevin

I had two abortions

Kera

I'm 18 years of age.My abortion was very hard on me due to religious reasons.It…

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

Karolina B

Kiedy spóźniła mi się miesiączka ... Wtedy juz wiedziałam że to ciąża .

Sierra

I had to get an abortion after my Skyla IUD was placed improperly or slipped. I…

Claudiagyn

Aconteceu comigo.

Na

Pois tenho direito de escolher o que é melhor pra mim! O importante é não se…

Casey

Medical abortion, 19 years old

mimi

mi aborto. siempre te voy a recordar pequeña semillita

laura micaela

Yoo aborte fue complicado porque pense q no iva a conseguir las medicinas, pero…

Mulher

Uma escolha pra vida!

B.

Uma decisão que precisa ser feita rápida porém pensada