Claudia Aviles

Condividi la tua storia

i had an abortion, and 10 years later i became a mother. you have the right to decide whenever you are ready to take that huge step.

1994 Cile (nato/a a Chile)

at first i felt very relieved, even happy (i was a teenager!). but then i had to have a surgical procedure to remove tissue that remained from the abortion, and that night i spent in Maternity was very sad. i felt guilty when i heard all the babies crying, and i thought i was the worst person on earth, and that i'd never get the chance to be a mother again. i was very sad for some weeks, then i began to process all that i had through. it took me some time, but finally i realized that, even when a baby brings a lot of love and joy to your life, if you're not prepared to face the huge responsibility involved in being a mother, it's better not to bring a baby to a life of suffering or abandon. ten years later, i became a mother for the first time. i had a career as a therapist, a good job, a supportive partner, and enough peace of mind to face that challenge. i was ready. now i'm the proud mother of two beautiful kids that have everything they need, and of course all my love and care.

i had to cross the border and go to Peru, where they had plenty of illegal clinics where you paid to get a surgical abortion, about 500 dollars at that time. unfortunately, the doctor didn't do it properly and i had to attend to the local hospital later, with an infection because of the remaining tissue.

i was only 19 years old, i had no job, no money, no career, no husband or partner... and as if it wasn't enough, i had a major depression that i wasn't treating because i couldn't afford a therapist.

L'illegalità del suo aborto ha influenzato i suoi sentimenti?

of course it did, i felt like i was a criminal for defending my right to decide. even now i can't talk about this freely, people in this country is very judgmental about abortion. i remember that i was afraid that the police could know what i did and arrest me... the fear dissappeared only when time made my abortion prescribe as a crime.

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

this is something i don't talk about very often, because many people react as if i was an immoral person, and others feel just uncomfortable with that issue. my family supported me by paying for the procedure, but they never wanted to talk about it again. my friends have always been very loving and understanding, and they were very important to overcome the sad feelings that sometimes come with that experience.

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…

Emilia Aguilera

Tuve un embarazo inesperado y por una medicación que tomo de por vida, mi hijo…

Sam

I had a Medical Abortion - Painful Experience, Life Changing

P.

Wszystko zaczęło sie dosyć banalnie i nic nie zwiastowało, że wkrótce mogę sie…

Jamie

And I am so happy! I am so lucky that I had the choice to have an abortion! The…

Amy Martinez

I had an abortion

Bi

Lembro que quando minha menstruação atrasou no primeiro dia eu já senti que…

Juliana

Das coisas que aconteceram em minha vida, posso considerar essa, é de longe, a…

xxx xxx

znów mogę cieszyć się życiem...

Luana Oliveira Jacob

Fiz um aborto - E me senti aliviada.Cada dia que me deito para dormir, fico…

Leah

I was twenty years old, terrified, and completely alone.

violet

Zdarzały mi się już wcześniej spóźnione okresy, które skutkowały paniką i…

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

Marcella

Aos 18 anos tive minha primeira experiência com meu namorado,Como tdo…

Allison

My abortion was 100% my choice.

deja la vida volar

decidí escribir mi experiencia en detalle ya que en mi país el aborto es…

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

Saraith saraith

Perdoneme mi bebe, te amare siempre!