Lora Fleming

Condividi la tua storia

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Stati Uniti

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

L'illegalità del suo aborto ha influenzato i suoi sentimenti?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

carmilla

J'ai avorté quand j'avais 18 ans. Je ne le regrette pas, je suis fière d'avoir…

Han

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

Carol .

Acabei de começar minha carreira, não quero ser mãe nesse momento

Newyor7891

I had an abortion

Jillybean

Women's bodies belong only to us. Men, families, society, have no right to…

Riki

We're not monsters!

Edyta

Nie wstydzę się tego, że jestem teraz szczęśliwa!!!

Claudia Aviles

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Warrior

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takaja

zrobiłabym to jeszcze raz

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Ania Kijawska

Mam dziecko, dom, męża zdecydowałam się na aborcję.

Beth Smith

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Mariana

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księżycowa23

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Candice

My first pregnancy came quite unexpectedly. I was 17 and my boyfriend and I had…

qbAnchic

This will be my 5th abortion today. This is the first time I've do e it with…

Jos

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