Lora Fleming

Condividi la tua storia

I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Stati Uniti

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

L'illegalità del suo aborto ha influenzato i suoi sentimenti?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

A alexandra

Mi futuro, mi familia

Marie

I had an abortion. It's a choice I want available for every woman, for…

Ka

O dono do meu corpo e do meu destino sou eu, e não a sociedade hipócrita e…

Andrea

Todo va a pasar, hace apenas 72 hs que termino pero se me han hecho eternas, se…

Katarina

w wieku 20 lat. Byłam za młoda, mam wielkie plany na przyszłość, nie chciałam…

Paegan

I had a SUPER LATE abortion.

Carol

I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could…

Laura

Desde que confirmé el embarazo, pensé cómo podría llevar a cabo el aborto.

Kate

and I'm so relieved

Jamie

And I am so happy! I am so lucky that I had the choice to have an abortion! The…

Yaya

Elegí no ser madre

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

Alejandra

Mi decisión

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Yvonne

My abortion was what needed to be done at that time. Deep down me I know I…

Sara

Completei o processo há cinco dias e não consigo deixar de pensar no assunto

Kristina Brandon

‪#‎StandWithPP‬ I never wanted kids. I got pregnant in college when I was 17.

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…