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Made me who I am today

2006 Stati Uniti

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

KiciaKamcia

Nie wahajcie sie, jezeli czujecie ze musicie.. zrobcie to

Paula

i had an abortion

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

Lisa

I always thought I cannot be pregnant, as I was diagnosed with primal…

Rachelle

I have had 3 abortions, one clinical, 2 medical. I do not regret those…

Almma Crysta

Supe de mi embarazo el 19 de enero de 2018 por una ecografía transvaginal que…

Ania anonimowa

Odpowiednia pora.

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Kiara

Lo hice por amor al bebé, no me merecía como mamá.

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Megan W.

I had an abortion. There has been no complications so far, but don't have a…

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

A.

Pomimo zastosowanej antykoncepcji, zaszłam w ciążę. Brałam tabletki.

Ray

Toda mulher tem direito à um aborto seguro, não importa quais sejam seus…

Maria Victoria

A gravidez é também a morte da pessoa que você foi até aquele momento, para…

Lily

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed