Anne

Ossza meg velünk történetét

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Németország

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Lilian

Wiosną skończyłam 36 lat, ginekolog sugerował, że pigułka antykoncepcyjna to…

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Constanza

Pensé en su posible futuro y en el mío, era la mejor decisión...

Alejandra

Tomé una desición

Yuko

Ciąża była bardzo niespodziewana, mam juz jedno dziecko, z racji wrodzonej wady…

Sierra

I had to get an abortion after my Skyla IUD was placed improperly or slipped. I…

Maria

Sou dona de mim.

Rosa

Yo aborte

Alice

This is how it went for me

Sisi

Nunca imagine tomar esa decisión...

Anna Ninguna

No estaba lista

Macarena

Yo aborte , con oxapros en Buenos Aires tengo 24 años

Yasmin Lara

Bom,eu encontrei vários relatos e quis deixar o meu bom eu tenho só 17 anos e…

Charlie

An abortion in an abusive relationship