Anne

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I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Allemagne

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

L'illégalité de votre avortement a-t-elle affecté vos sentiments ?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Comment les autres personnes ont-elles réagi à votre avortement ?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Beta

La única opción

Urszula

Po porodzie miałam postanowienie, wiecej dzieci nie chcę, mój ginekolog dobrze…

Bia Li

Me encontro na cama deitada nesse momento, após ter passado um dia inteiro no…

CINTIA

Yo aborté y no me arrepiento de ello.

julie

My life became changed

Maria

La decisión es tuya enlo que sigue te acompañamos

Młoda Dama

Postanowiłam opisać swój przypadek ponieważ sama podczas dokonywania aborcji…

Gaby

No me arrepiento

A R

Jest noc. @ dni temu o tej porze, leżałam w łazience myśląc, że chyba umieram.

María

Yo aborte

Dina Wood

I had an abortion.It was illegal in the United States at the time, but I was…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Mitzi .

I had an abortion. And i know that was the best choice.

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

takajakty

To była lepsza decyzja

Regina Kunst

Aku memutuskan untuk aborsi karena pada saat itu, aku masih menempuh S3 dan…