Stuffy (S.A.) Reagan

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Involved in international travel in my 20's, I worked for a year within the United States military in Heidelberg when West Germany, 1974.

2021 Netherlands

I like whom I've been able to grow into. There was pain and "repercussion" from family and cultures around me; I don't think I'd change anything for myself. For others, I hope my storytelling can help. ("Seizure of Contentment"-unpublished and "From the Nuthouse and an Outdoor Existence"-a Poetry and Pictorial Art book available on Amazon.com in eBook and Print form since 2019.

I was shocked to discover the pregnancy and found myself too unprepared and far from "relatives" or my own support to give to the prospect of this opportunity I'd hoped to replicate better, later. I became unable to do so in the environment abroad and also back in the U.S. I had a "post-partum"/culture(s) shock depression that has been mitigated and rebalanced among my artist endeavors, subsequent illness, recovery reclaiming my original traveling abroad initiatives to become a lesbian-feminist poet, activist, athlete, scholar and healthcare practitioner, partner of a quintessential Hawaiian-Chinese woman for 25 years.

main man had mouths to feed already, perhaps he was married. I'd had a lot of inducement around me to get pregnant, but I'd found support in going ahead had been short-sighted most of all in/by myself.

How did other people react to your abortion?

One of my partners, a younger man, (American civilian) shared excitement with me when I got a 2nd statement of status from military services confirming the pregnancy near where I'd worked and where my other partner was stationed active U.S. Army. This Black soldier had only recently told me of ties, including children in the states, affording me no grounds of "association." Early on, he'd offered to use a condom. The first partner and I had used some birth control, whereas we had not. A close female associate of mine at work had only given me the address of klinik in Holland, I'd found my way to.

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Vivi Lili

La vdd no creo que sea malo soy una mujer casada y tengo un precioso hijo pero…

A alexandra

Mi futuro, mi familia

Nina

Fiz um aborto

Claire

My first abortion took place when I was 19 and the second, when I was 26. I…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

Keh Oliver

e não me arrenpendo.

Julieta

Tenía 21 años, una pareja estable con quien pasé 14 años de mi vida. Al dudar…

Inês

Está tudo bem, estamos todas juntas.

Aleja

Yo aborte. No fue una decisión fácil. No entraré en detalles del porqué tome la…

Nadia

Kochana kobieto, która być może jesteś właśnie w niechcianej ciąży, wiec że…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

Rachelle

I have had 3 abortions, one clinical, 2 medical. I do not regret those…

Natali

no es una decisión fácil, tienes que tomar los pros, contras y ponerlos en una…