Sonja

Share your story

2019 Finland

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

How did other people react to your abortion?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

Gigi

I forgot my birth control for a couple days on a trip, and it was enough to…

Urszula

Po porodzie miałam postanowienie, wiecej dzieci nie chcę, mój ginekolog dobrze…

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

Flor de Luna

Piloto automático, pero no me arrepiento

Paulina

To była historia inna niż wszystkie. Mam wspaniałą rodzine. Męża i niespełna 2…

jennelyn

I had an abortion

Paloma

tenemos derecho a decidir, a no ser juzgadas!!! nosotras también tenemos…

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!

Marilyn Ramos Morenita. !

Yo decido, yo hago lo que quiero con mi cuerpo y nadie tiene porque decirme…

Sofia Ignatius

I had abortion n all went well

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

Pooh

Terminé mi embarazo

Felicia Ríos

Yo elegí y aborté

Alana

I had abortion TWICE!!

Melanie

No era el momento ni la persona

Nat

Zawsze miałam bolesne miesiączki, wiec spodziewałam się, ze będzie naprawdę…

An

A los 19 años , no me arrepiento de haber tomado esta desicion. Fue un…

Natali

no es una decisión fácil, tienes que tomar los pros, contras y ponerlos en una…

Canela

Me hice un aborto porque no quería ser madre en ese momento.