Paegan

I had a SUPER LATE abortion.

2012 United States

trapped selfish relieved confident happy guilty afraid

It gave me so many mixed emotions! I was happy to follow through but felt selfish(dad to be wanted to keep it) and maybe a little guilty.. or definitely judged.

in a clinic or hospital with surgery

Took 2 days, day 1 they do ultrasound and all that then they gave me medicine to help induce me and soften the cervix. Had milf cramps that evening. Went back day 2 and they gave me a large shot near my belly button, sat for a few hours, went under anesthesia, woke up in a different room with several other women, groggy.. and waited to be checked and released. But I was 20weeks along.. so yeah

financial issues problems with my relationship my personal reasons for not wanting a child mental health reasons

I mainly was not ready to give up no responsibilities and couldn't afford a kid.

Ngaba ukungabikho mthethweni kokuqhomfa kwakho kuchaphazele iimvakalelo zakho?

Being legal didnt make the choice any easier.

Benze ntoni abanye abantu xa ukhupha isisu?

Close family supported me. Friends (some not all) that I thought would support me talked bad about me behind my back and to my face.

legal

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