Amy

Deel je ervaring

2017 Новая Зеландия

I had an argument with my partner the afternoon before I had it. We kind of resolved it but I didn't want to wait any longer to have the abortion. So I had it that evening and my partner just zoned out. I felt so alone. I felt so angry that I was doubled over on the couch and he would ask me to get him a drink etc. I was so angry that he didn't understand what my body was going through and that he didn't show me any sympathy.

I was terrified as I had no family or friends around as I live on the other side of the world and have no-one here. I felt empty and teary the days after because my partner did not realize the trauma that had occurred in the bathroom and in my body. We moved house the same weekend I had the abortion and was expected to get on with things - so I did. I've kept myself so busy since that I still feel like I need a couple of days to mourn. I regret that I flushed the fetus down the toilet. I panicked and didn't think through what I would actually do with it. If I could do it again, I would've kept it and buried it for closure.

Как другие люди отреагировали на ваш аборт?

My partner sat on the couch, asked how I was from time to time and played on his laptop. He got angry with me in the days after about silly things and wouldn't talk about it. I told him that I wouldn't pressure him to speak about it but told him I would like to know one day.

Andy

Decidí sobre mi futuro.

carolina

yo aborté y quiero contar mi experiencia...

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

Fran

YO DECIDÍ

andrea

A mi ángel

Willem Velthoven

I had several abortions. And children too!

Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

Tha

Primeiro, Calma!

Vamos lá, tenho 31 anos um filho de 7.
Voltei a me relacionar…

Felicia

I had an abortion, so that I could heal.

Jezzi

Yo aborte con cinco semanas de gestación.... En el mi corazón siempre vivirás.

Jess

*No podía ser* 11sem

Abbie

I had an abortion and don't regret it.

Vanessa

yo conoci a los 14 años a un vigilante que trabajaba donde mi mama el era super…

Anônimo

Gostaria de começar dizendo que deu tudo certo!
Quando realizei meu aborto…

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…

Daisy

Miałam aborcję. I nie jestem z tego dumna.
19 lutego 2020 roku zrobiłam test…

Anonimowa

Dokonałam tego co jest zakazane w tym kraju. Nie czuję się winna.

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

Daniela

Tengo una hija de 4 años, pero aun asi yo aborte este año.