Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Estados Unidos

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

gise

esta vez decido yo!

AS

I am having an abortion as I am writing this, at home with cytotec…

Naii C

Era apenas uma menina de 16 anos, não usava anticoncepcional mantinha relação…

C. Ferreira

Pior dia da minha vida

Weronika

Dzien w którym potwierdzila sie moja ciaza był jak wyrocznia... Mam dużo swoich…

Maria Madalena

Fiz um aborto e me sinto muito, muito aliviada!!!

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

aileen

I have had two abortions

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Warrior

Sinceramente eu não imaginei que passaria por isso esse ano. Mas sabia que um…

Ammy

Yo he estado en las dos caras de la moneda, cuando tenia 16 años quede…

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

sogoodtobebad stassia

Dziewczyny ! nie bójcie się ! nie taki diabeł straszny jak go malują. Jeżeli…

Eva Paradise

Aborté. Fue un alivio. Nunca me arrepentí. Hoy tengo dos hijos y puedo criarlos…

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

Ezzah candra

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