Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Estados Unidos

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Sara

Postanowiłam opisać swoją historię, ponieważ historie innych kobiet bardo dużo…

Cacau

O aborto é uma escolha apenas da MULHER.

ana maria Duque

I had an abortion but this wasn't easy I was very afraid, but i never regret…

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.

Aguacate

Como abortar en una ciudad donde es penalizado el aborto las primeras semanas.

Xara

I had Three Abortions.

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Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Sapphire

I had an abortion and it was worth it, absolutely no regrets.

Anastasia

Hola chicas. Bueno yo quedé embarazada a los 17 años. Recién empezaba mi…

Miqueyla

No me arrepiento de lo que hice. Abortar suena demasiado frío , asi que mejor…

Laura

Fue una difícil decisión a pesar que no es mi primer aborto. Sé que tengo un…

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

María

Jamás sabré si fue la mejor decisión, jamás lo podré conocer, pero en este…

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

EV

I had an abortion and I do not regret my choice. It is very important to me to…

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

carmilla

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Bri

I knew I was pregnant as soon as I was around two weeks. I had never been…

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