Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Estados Unidos

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Klaudia

Miałam aborcję i nie żałuję! Znowu czuję, że żyję. Opowiem wam w skrócie moją…

Anon

I had an abortion at 15...and my life is still going well

Emily

It was the right thing to do.

Felicia

I had an abortion, so that I could heal.

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Caroline

Never had any regrets

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Joice

Já é difícil criar 2 filhos, não conseguiria lidar com um terceiro..

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

kate swanson

I didn't intend it to, but safe, legal abortion played a huge part in my family…

Kah

Decisões difíceis exigem coragem.

Sofia S

Oi meninas! Meu nome é Sofia, tenho 20 anos e em novembro de 2019 descobri que…

Eléonore Delmas

I had an abortion

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

Rocio Beron

Tome mi decisión y estoy mejor haciendo lo que quiero y siento!!

Alex

Never felt so relieved in my life. I owe everything to planned parenthood and…

gise

esta vez decido yo!

Ania

Wczoraj dokonałam aborcji.
Odejście od męża, związanie się z nowym, wydawałoby…

Zosia

Dowiedziałam się o mojej niechcianej ciąży podczas wizyty kontrolnej u…

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