Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Estados Unidos

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Carolina

Estou numa relação estável há 4 anos e há 2 parei de usar anticoncepcional…

Warrior

Sinceramente eu não imaginei que passaria por isso esse ano. Mas sabia que um…

Emily

It isn't and shouldn't be as taboo as it is made out to be.

Mabel

Mabel

Lili

I interrupted my early pregnancy

Petal

I had an abortion only a few months ago. I'm 30, a praticing Christian, a…

Fanti. Alexandra

Sentí y decidí.

Clarice

Sempre fui a favor do aborto, não por uma questão feminista, mas por acreditar…

Karolina B

Kiedy spóźniła mi się miesiączka ... Wtedy juz wiedziałam że to ciąża .

Beth

No estaba 10% segura pero lo hice,
Yo aborte.

Gigi

I forgot my birth control for a couple days on a trip, and it was enough to…

Won’t be named Won’t be named

I had an abortion a week after my twenty second birthday, I was five and a half…

Suzanne

I had an abortion

carmilla

J'ai avorté quand j'avais 18 ans. Je ne le regrette pas, je suis fière d'avoir…

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

Delia

I had an abortion and it changed my life, for better and for worse.

O.N.A

Wieść o ciąży była dla mnie szokiem, ale mogłam się jej spodziewać bo niestety…

Sofia S

Oi meninas! Meu nome é Sofia, tenho 20 anos e em novembro de 2019 descobri que…