Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Estados Unidos

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Lucyna L

I had an abortion

Yaya

Elegí no ser madre

Sylvie Shene

A Life-Saving Experience

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

Marcela

Es más una historia de amor, que de un aborto pero posiblemente en algo te…

Julia

Uwolniłam się od piekła i zyskałam szansę na szczęście

YoungWoman NotReadyNow SecretsAreComplicating

This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Miqueyla

No me arrepiento de lo que hice. Abortar suena demasiado frío , asi que mejor…

Ania

Wczoraj dokonałam aborcji.
Odejście od męża, związanie się z nowym, wydawałoby…

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…

Maria

Ser mamá por elección, no a la fuerza.

Abbie

I had an abortion and don't regret it.

Raquel

Perdón a mis angelitos!

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

Pocahontas

Seré mamá cuando YO lo decida y ese día definitivamente no será hoy.

Lindsay Millett

I had an abortion

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

pam carol

Yo aborte

Raquel Monterrey

I spoke with the spirit of my child before my abortion. That spirit who was…