Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Estados Unidos

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Jora

Fiz um aborto e o momento foi muito delicado. Primeiro que fui procurar os…

Andy

Decidí sobre mi futuro.

Gigi

I forgot my birth control for a couple days on a trip, and it was enough to…

Nonaka

A exatamente um mês atrás realizei o aborto, sou residente do Japão, apesar de…

Nara

Eu descobri a gravidez com 10 semanas,tomava Yasmin a 4 anos,assim que comecei…

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

Na

Pois tenho direito de escolher o que é melhor pra mim! O importante é não se…

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

Decidí desde el principio no compartir esa experiencia con la pareja de ese…

y.enedi

yo decidi un aborto,

Aby

I felt it was accapted to have an abortion

Angel M

To była 3 ciąża nieplanowana i niechciana, przede wszystkim przeze mnie. Głupia…

Bryann Turner

It was the right decision for me at this time.

Claire

My first abortion took place when I was 19 and the second, when I was 26. I…

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

Duda

Sendo lactante

Renata

Calma, eu sei seu desespero. VAI DAR TUDO CERTO! #FORÇA

Sun Flower

Me, and my guy friend had just found out I was pregnant, though he was super…

Aguaperdida Pam

Fue una decisión muy difícil pero estoy segura de que fue la mejor.
Un embarazo