Lora Fleming

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I had 3 abortions and as a medical student, I helped preform several abortions as well as seeing the results of "illegal" abortions

1989 Estados Unidos

in looking back I did feel guilty but so relieved -- also the persistent nausea I experienced with all 3 pregnancies stopped almost immediately which was huge - and now many years later I still feel such relief and I feel such fear about what is happening in the US and other places right now -- all women deserve a safe accessible inexpensive choice

it was relatively quick with some physical pain and major emotional pain even with supportive partner -- the nurses were empathetic but the doctors (could be my projection) seemed distant and cold

I had one daughter and a very busy and fulfilling career and life and I did not want to have more children -- it was in some ways a "selfish" decision but one that I am glad I was able to make and obtain a safe abortion without major financial or health costs

A ilegalidade de seu aborto afetou seus sentimentos?

I felt incredibly lucky -- as a college student before becoming a physician I had worked in a public hospital in Arequipa Peru where women were brought when they had unfinished "illegal" abortions -- they were denounced by the healthcare providers because it was illegal and often not given any pain medicines -- and they had many horrible long term consequences including infections, infertility, chronic pain and this continues https://radioambulante.org/en/audio-en/we-decide as well as we will see more of this in the US and beyond and I try to support groups like planned parenthood, the reproductive rights foundation, women on waves, women on web

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

In general with support and love although distinctly an issue especially from the physician who did 2 of these abortions that "3 is too many"

Clarice

Sempre fui a favor do aborto, não por uma questão feminista, mas por acreditar…

Dani

Because I NEEDED TO DO IT!
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An

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Canela

Me hice un aborto porque no quería ser madre en ese momento.

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Lea

Kobieto, jeśli zaszłaś w niechcianą ciążę, to nie wahaj się ani chwili. WOW…

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I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed

Lucero Lucero

Creo que por fin tuve control de mi vida.

qbAnchic

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Rednwhite

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This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Bia Li

Me encontro na cama deitada nesse momento, após ter passado um dia inteiro no…

P.

Wszystko zaczęło sie dosyć banalnie i nic nie zwiastowało, że wkrótce mogę sie…

Abbie

I had an abortion and don't regret it.

Beata

Informacja o ciąży przeraziła mnie...nie potrafiłam się z tym pogodzić, byłam…

Tannicola Nkata

I was brutally rapped during my time of imprisonment in my native country. I…

Patricia Bronstein

I was married and had known since an early age that I did not want to be a…

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Vanessa Behrens

Decisión personal