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Made me who I am today

2006 Estados Unidos

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

Como as outras pessoas reagiram ao seu aborto?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Carol

I woke up in bed, and thought this is a new beginning for him and I. I could…

R. P.

Força, meninas, que tudo se ajeita!

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

Aguaperdida Pam

Fue una decisión muy difícil pero estoy segura de que fue la mejor.
Un embarazo

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

mayumi uehara

Fiz.não me arrependo e contei com a ajuda da ong, o que foi essencial para que…

Annelise

A maternidade como função obrigatória não é maternidade. Não é linda. Ser mãe…

Melodie

J'ai avorté il y a 4 ans et demi

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…

Mary

I can now carry on with life.

SouthernBelle

No Regrets.

laMaga

Pense en el bienestar de los 2

Xara

I had Three Abortions.

squaine123

Not in this alone

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

Dália

Eu li uns 100 depoimentos que me ajudaram muito ,então decidi escrever para…

Ashley Engbrecht

At the young age of 17, I was the victim of sexual assault. There is nothing…