Anne

Podziel się swoimi doświadczeniami

I knew exactly what I wanted and needed- to be there for my kids, to find a job, to get settled in the new city. Not to have a third child.
It is mandatory in Germany to have a counseling before I could even go to a doctor. It was a very disturbing experience, the person trying to talk me into continuing the pregnancy. Then I struggled to find a doctor tp provide the abortion, run out of time to do it with pills. The doctors and nurses at the private (and expensive) clinic I finally found were treating me like shit, making me listen to the heartbeat against after I had asked them no to etc.
This made me realize what a long way we have to go. Experiencing the partriarchy on/at my own body was a surreal experience. Today I accompany friends and strangers in their abortions to make sure they are safe.

2018 Niemcy

the medical procedure is very easy and quick. the way how I was treated was the problem.

Czy nielegalność twojej aborcji wpłynęła na twoje uczucia?

well it is still illegal here but not persecuted if you do the mandatory counseling and have it before 12 weeks. I could do it in a clinic which is a major privilege but the way how I was treated and how difficult I found the access to be showed very clear that the public opinion and the very fact that it is officially still considered a crime does play a big role.

Jak inni ludzie zareagowali na twoją aborcję?

once I started to share and speak up about my experience, more and more people shared their stories as well. I ended up going on stage and talking about it in a play. reactions from friends and family were positive. my mum told me she had an abortion too when she was my age, had to travel to a different country in the 70s because it was not possible here then.

Maria Lopez

pensando en que dirán

andrea ka

Yo aborte

Annabelle Carton

j´ai eu un avortement

Natalia M

Yo aborté, y no me arrepiento.

Claudia Aviles

i had an abortion, and 10 years later i became a mother. you have the right to…

mela

Vivire por ti mi pequeño angel

Silvia

Nunca arrepentida

Anna

Jak dla każdej kobiety dowiedzenie się ze jest się w ciąży, zwłaszcza jeżeli…

Vanessa Behrens

Decisión personal

Dita

I choose abortion hard at the beginning but I know this is the right choice

Andrea

Todo va a pasar, hace apenas 72 hs que termino pero se me han hecho eternas, se…

B.

Uma decisão que precisa ser feita rápida porém pensada

Amarie

I got pregnant by the guy I was only dating for 2 months. I found out about it…

Javi

La historia, tal cual, detrás mi aborto

Hattie Ladd

I have had two abortions. The first one was when I was 20 and the second when I…

maly min

Si, yo una vez estuve embarazada, de eso no hace mucho y cuando me entere llore…

Daniela

Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude