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Deel je ervaring

2018 Duitsland

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Andrea

It's your choice.

Sunny

To była moja druga aborcja. Jak się okazało, była dużo łatwiejsza, z…

Maiara Rejane

Não havia outra alternativa.
Dia 02 de Julho, voltava de uma festa, havia bebido…

Rachelle

I have had 3 abortions, one clinical, 2 medical. I do not regret those…

Mariela

Aunque me cueste decirlo, yo aborté

barbara k

Zaczęłam odczuwać mdłości, zrobiłam test i okazało się, że jestem w ciąży.

Ana

Fiz um aborto e não me arrependo. O meu desejo é que todas as mulheres tenham…

Uma Mulher

Pra mim, fazer um aborto foi um ato de responsabilidade

Sylwia Zatońska

Ciąża nie powinna być przypadkiem!!!

Ana

Mis decisiones son las mejores porque son mías.

Charlie

An abortion in an abusive relationship

Sarah Brown Sara

A pesar de que tengo la edad suficiente y una pareja estable y en planes de…

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Luna

Aún grito perdón

Clarice

Sempre fui a favor do aborto, não por uma questão feminista, mas por acreditar…

Zoe

I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My…

Ola

Minął rok od aborcji. Bylam młoda, mialam zaczac studia. Zaszłam w ciążę z…