Han

Deel je ervaring

Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

2016 Verenigd Koninkrijk

Sometimes I feel selfish, but then I stop and tell myself, no it’s my body and my life. I don’t regret what I did and need to stop letting the what ifs get into my head!!

The process itself was straight forward in terms of how everything went about. But for me mentally and physically it was horrendous. I knew as soon as I found out I was pregnant that I didn’t want the baby. I wasn’t ready. I’d just handed my notice in at work and my partner and i were going travelling later that year for 12 months. Like I said, the process was straightforward. I met with my GP who gave me the number of a clinic I had to ring. I made an appointment, had a scan and discussed options. The nursing staff were incredibly friendly and non judgemental. It felt like a very warm environment. My first option was the pill. I could have taken one then and come back the following day and taken another one, but because I’d already lied to work about where I was, the fact I worked an hour away and the fact I was a teacher, I couldn’t go through with it. So because of time restraints my second option was minor surgery to remove the fetus. It was painful, and both during and after. After a few hours there was a lot of a blood and the cramps were horrendous. There is still a stigma around abortion and because of that I’ve lived with this secret for almost 2 years. Because of the stigma I couldn’t tell my boss so I had to go back to work the next day and teach 32 ten year olds whilst I was in incredible pain and still miscarrying.

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

The only person who knows about the abortion was my partner at the time. Something I’ve found difficult since I made my decision was coping with the fact he didn’t want me to go through with it. It’s something he held against me for the rest of our relationship.

Jay

I had a medical abortion when i was 18 years old at 5 weeks pregnant. Yes, it…

alexandra

j´ai eu un avortement

Fernanda

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Bárbara

Fiz o procedimento ontem e quero contar com riqueza de detalhes , por isso…

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Anônimo

Gostaria de começar dizendo que deu tudo certo!
Quando realizei meu aborto…

Stephanie

at just 19 years old.

Vivian

I had an abortion 6 months ago.My boyfriend and I were not ready to have a baby.

Jennifer

Sin duda ha sido la decisión más difícil que he tomado en lo que llevo de vida

Ianne

A cry of freedom for all women who are dictated by the mentality of the norms…

Izabela

Mam 20 lat i zupełnie nie byłam przygotowana na ciąże.
Ja i mój chłopak…

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

Javiera

Yo aborte en Chile, en pandemia gracias a Wow

Alice

This is how it went for me

Paulette De los reyes

Decidi lo mejor para las dos

H

I had two abortions by the time I was 23 and a third when I was 29. All…

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe

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