Bobbie

Deel je ervaring

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right to bring a child into nothing with no future.

1983 Canada

I often think about those early pregnancies and I know that there was no way I would have been able to do everything to keep those children safe and fed and give them an opportunity to have a bright future. Even after waiting until I finished college it was a struggle to raise my baby girl. But at least we had a chance. I am so great full tohave a choice ! Now we need to help the next generation have a choice AND not feel as dirty and bad as I felt as a 13 year old girl handing out Halloween candy to beautiful little children as I soaked up the blood from the choice that was made for me. I wish that all girls knew there bodies belong to themselves!

The first time I was 13 years old. I had been sexually abused since I was a small child I was never taught that I a right to decide what was done to my body. My family secrets were generations deep. I didn't choose to have an abortion I let myself float along and it became another thing that was done TO me. When I was 18 I had a couple of years of counselling and having imancipated myself from my family at 15 I was shouting out those dark secrets and learning my body was not for others to use or a tool to use to prove I loved someone. When I learned I was pregnant I had almost finished high school and knew that having a child was a great and permanent decision and instead of letting myself be the victim I stood up and made a choice. My choice was to allow myself to grow up and not bring another child to grow up poor uneducated. I knew I wasn't strong enough to protect and give this child a happy safe life and I knew I wasn't strong enough to give the child up. I couldn't be the mother this baby deserved I was barely feeding myself. I loved the child in my belly enough to let it go. I loved myself enough to let myself heal and to choose.

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

As Many people have condemned as supported me. Just because I had the legal right to an abortion does not mean people accept and support people who make such a gut wrenching decision.

Daniela

Yo aborté y es la mejor decisión que pude haber tomado.

Jay

I had a medical abortion when i was 18 years old at 5 weeks pregnant. Yes, it…

Martina Martina

Un acto irresponsable pero a la vez un sentimiento de alivio.

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

Laura

Fue una difícil decisión a pesar que no es mi primer aborto. Sé que tengo un…

Beth

No estaba 10% segura pero lo hice,
Yo aborte.

NICOL

No tenia mas opciones

Newyor7891

I had an abortion

Saraith saraith

Perdoneme mi bebe, te amare siempre!

Mary Adler

Saya hamil 7minggu. Saya seorang muslim dan pacar saya seorang yang menganut…

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

chiquiss67

Hola.

Tengo 22 años y aborte en febrero de este año. Me di cuenta de que estaba…

Fallen Angel

I had the SAFEST ABORTION even in the PHILIPPINES through womenonweb.org.

Kristina Brandon

‪#‎StandWithPP‬ I never wanted kids. I got pregnant in college when I was 17.

Maggie

Desculpa não te ter dado uma chance de sobreviveres, mas fiquei demasiado…