Bobbie

Deel je ervaring

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right to bring a child into nothing with no future.

1983 Canada

I often think about those early pregnancies and I know that there was no way I would have been able to do everything to keep those children safe and fed and give them an opportunity to have a bright future. Even after waiting until I finished college it was a struggle to raise my baby girl. But at least we had a chance. I am so great full tohave a choice ! Now we need to help the next generation have a choice AND not feel as dirty and bad as I felt as a 13 year old girl handing out Halloween candy to beautiful little children as I soaked up the blood from the choice that was made for me. I wish that all girls knew there bodies belong to themselves!

The first time I was 13 years old. I had been sexually abused since I was a small child I was never taught that I a right to decide what was done to my body. My family secrets were generations deep. I didn't choose to have an abortion I let myself float along and it became another thing that was done TO me. When I was 18 I had a couple of years of counselling and having imancipated myself from my family at 15 I was shouting out those dark secrets and learning my body was not for others to use or a tool to use to prove I loved someone. When I learned I was pregnant I had almost finished high school and knew that having a child was a great and permanent decision and instead of letting myself be the victim I stood up and made a choice. My choice was to allow myself to grow up and not bring another child to grow up poor uneducated. I knew I wasn't strong enough to protect and give this child a happy safe life and I knew I wasn't strong enough to give the child up. I couldn't be the mother this baby deserved I was barely feeding myself. I loved the child in my belly enough to let it go. I loved myself enough to let myself heal and to choose.

Hoe reageerden andere mensen op je abortus?

As Many people have condemned as supported me. Just because I had the legal right to an abortion does not mean people accept and support people who make such a gut wrenching decision.

Fernanda

Descobri que estava grávida no dia do meu aniversário, na época, sem nenhum…

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Marcella

Aos 18 anos tive minha primeira experiência com meu namorado,Como tdo…

Lorena Lore

Yo aborte con 5 semanas de gestacion !! No ago responsable a nadie yo me ago…

Annelise

A maternidade como função obrigatória não é maternidade. Não é linda. Ser mãe…

Maree

It was sad but necessary

Zoe

I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My…

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

A .

16 semanas de terror

Sadie

I had been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we are in our early 30s now. 

My…

squaine123

Not in this alone

Paegan

I had a SUPER LATE abortion.

Georgina

Punto y coma.

Andrea

Cuando tenia 19 años, "me enamore" de un tipo casado, quede embarazada y el lo…

Vivi Lili

La vdd no creo que sea malo soy una mujer casada y tengo un precioso hijo pero…

Mayra

Yo aborté a las 7 semanas y fue la mejor decisión.

Sapphire

I had an abortion and it was worth it, absolutely no regrets.

M

At first i didn't know i was pregnant until i noticed i was vomiting a lot, but…

Priscila

Há 5 anos atrás fiz um aborto,e hoje vejo claramente que foi a melhor escolha e…