Louise Harper

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I have had two abortions. One at the age of 22 which I paid privately for at 9 weeks gestation, and one at age 38 which I had through the NHS at 8 weeks gestation. By no means was this an easy option as many people think but I 100% made the right choice and definitely have no regrets. On both occasions I had no hesitation with choosing a termination and had vacuum aspiration under general anaesthetic. No complications, very little pain and no lasting effects. On the first one there were protesters outside but it made no difference to me at all. It is my life, my body, my choice.

Never feel bad for making this decision for yourself as you won’t regret it. Once you have been and had it done you will feel relief and nothing but gratitude for having been unburdened. It isn’t pleasant to have to terminate but it is the right thing to do when you are in no place to be bringing up a child.

We have the right as women to choose.

I feel no guilt, no regret, no post-abortion psychosis, nothing. I am lucky to be able to access the services I did.

Never stay silent and never be ashamed. YOUR body, YOUR choice.

2015 United Kingdom

Didn’t feel guilty but felt like I was ‘old enough to know better’. This passed once the operation was completed. I have not looked back. Not once.

Pain free as I was unconscious. After pain was minimal. Hardly any bleeding.

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My partner was supportive. My parents disapproved. Didn’t matter to me as it was my choice.

Fernanda

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Key

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Anônimo

Gostaria de começar dizendo que deu tudo certo!
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Lora Fleming

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Julieta Iovaldi Curutchet

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Juliana

Das coisas que aconteceram em minha vida, posso considerar essa, é de longe, a…

AM

I had a surgical, had two kids, and then had medical abortion.

Karolina B

Kiedy spóźniła mi się miesiączka ... Wtedy juz wiedziałam że to ciąża .

Luiza N.

Minha história foi completamente diferente de tudo que li aqui no site…

I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Daniela

yo aborte y no me siento culpable.

Aga... ta...(?)

zastanawiam się jak to przeżycie i fakt co zrobiałam wpłynie na dalsze moje…

Ono Kin

Really worked, except for suspicion from customs

Julia

Postanowiłam się podzielić swoją historią, ponieważ gdy szukałam informacji na…

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

barbara k

Zaczęłam odczuwać mdłości, zrobiłam test i okazało się, że jestem w ciąży.