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I had an abortion

I'm a single mom, and i was 21 when i got pregnant the second time. Abortions are illegal in my country, so i didnt have a lot of options. At first i tried cytotec, but it didnt work as well as i hoped. after thirty tabs i gave up. the person who sold me cytotec led me to a sort of midwife who did it for a fee. by then i was three months pregnant. although im not particularly proud of what i did, i feel that i made the best choice: for myself, and for my 3 year old son.

2007 Philippinen (gimęs Philippines)

im okay, i guess. the guilt is there, of course, but it's not as bad as i thought it would be. the main thing im concerned about now is my health: i wasnt given any instructions or medicine to take after the abortion so im afraid i might get an infection. but im just trying to put it out of my mind because it's been one day after the abortion and im feeling okay, health-wise.

it wasnt pleasant, because of the circumstances surrounding my abortion (no anesthetics is one of the worst parts) but im glad i did it just the same. im glad i can now say that my uterus is not government-owned.

Ar jūsų abortų neteisėtumas paveikė jūsų jausmus?

yes. i had been pro-choice for years, and the difficulty of getting an abortion in the philippines angered me. if legal abortions were available, then we wouldnt have to pay such astronomical prices and be forced to have the procedures done in ramshackle country clinics with no anesthetics and no post-abortion care. i wish the women in my country had more options: i wish no one had to go through what i did.

Kaip kiti žmonės reagavo į jūsų abortą?

my best friend was sympathetic, as she also had an abortion two years before. she did her best to help me, before and after the procedure. she didnt think i was a bad person, and i didnt think she was a bad person either. we were just trying to figure out what was the best for all concerned.

Bryann Turner

It was the right decision for me at this time.

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

Sofia Ignatius

I had abortion n all went well

Sara

Tome la decisión ya que anteriormente (a los 15 años) ya había tenido un…

deedee

한국에 계신 분들 걱정마십쇼!! 낙심하시 마시고 자신을 믿으세요!

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

laMaga

Pense en el bienestar de los 2

Briana

Experiencia dificil.. Pero inolvidable

Beth Smith

I was with my parter for three and a half years when i fell pregnant. I was…

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Lindsay Millett

I had an abortion

diana

naprawde nie miałam wyjścia jestem miesiąc po,nie bolało szczerze mówiąc…

Dolores Feffer

I had two.

No woman should ever have to justify a dessicion on her own body.

Butterfly

Bylam za granica kiedy postanowilam zrobic pierwszy test ciazowy. Okres…

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Luna

Aún grito perdón

Iza

To było trudne doświadczenie, ale nie żałuję.

Tlhogi Tshegofaso

I did it when I was 4 weeks. Its was tremendously painful and horrific. The…

lolita

fui libre respecto esta decision