Lu

당신의 이야기를 공유합니다

Unexpected feelings

2019 Соединенные Штаты Америки

For an unexplainable reason I'm hurt by this loss. For some reason flushing down the toilet (literally), what could have been my baby felt wrong. I never dreamed I would think of an unthinking, unfeeling, thing the size of a raspberry, as .. . Deserving. As needing taken care of. As deserving not to be just thrown away. I totally respect everyone's choice but for some reason I grew an attachment to that thing inside of me. I knew I was pregnant before the missed period. I felt my body change and at first I felt punished. Trapped. scared. I was so worried about how to make it stop and get back to my old self I didn't realize I was also subconsciously feeling every second of that pregnancy. I guess it left some weird imprint on me. I don't know how to tell my partner that it still hurts me. He doesnt get it when I try to tell him that it was a huge experience for me and I need time to heal. I wish I was one of those people who just go on with their life like nothing happened but ive always been pretty sensitive

I had a medical abortion. With a heating pad and tramadol, the pain was bearable. The bleeding stopped after a week. Going back to work was extremely hard for me at first as my job is very physically demanding but I got through it.

낙태의 불법 성이 감정에 영향을 미쳤습니까?

The protesters who were outside of every clinic visit, yelling "repent" and "it's not too late" with their giant pictures of fetuses and whatnot. .. to the recent string of abortion/birth control bans and criminalization. I was so afraid I wouldn't have access to choice (I do thanks to the acula and pp and organizations like women have options who helped me AFFORD it). And after the abortion I feel less angry at those ignorant prolifers, I feel more.. grief. Which is their objective I'm sure. ..

다른 사람들은 당신의 낙태에 대해 어떻게 반응 했습니까?

Indifferent/ nonchalant. My partner and I have always agreed to an abortion in case an accident ever happened.. and it did. I'm not brave enough or ready to tell my mother. I need time. I never dreamed it would affect me this way. I drunkenly told one of my few female friends. I work in a male dominated field and most of my friends are male. I don't think any of them could react in a way that would be comforting or worth validation as they can't understand. So I haven't told anyone really. Guess that's why I'm here.

Kyky

Your Dreams Are Real, So Are Abortions.

Frida Ku

La experiencia que me cambio.

Bree

It was the right decision just hard than i thought it would to deal with

Liz

Eu tinha 22 anos, minha menstruação atrasou e meus seios estavam muito inchados.

Monoirmarie

Yo aborté porque es mi derecho

Juliette

j´ai avorté.

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Andy

Decidí sobre mi futuro.

Magda

To była moja decyzja!

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

Amanda

E não me arrependo, não se culpe por isso
Você é dona de si.
Eu sou bem jovem

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Camila

Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.

Hope

Zakochałam się w mężczyźnie o 13 lat starszym. Zawrócił mi w głowie. Jest…

Dulcinea Vázquez

Las pastillas tardaron un poco mas de 3 horas en hacer efecto, no presenté…

Ronnie

because the time just wasn't right for me.