Serena

I had an abortion

1993 Arjantin

grieving irresponsible trapped numb relieved confused ashamed guilty

I felt very lonely, guilty, trapped and extremely stupid for getting pregnant. I was too young, studying, just broken up with that boyfriend. I carried the guilt and shame for over 20 years, didn't talk about till now in my 40s, have suffered depression because I couldn't deal with it. I wish these pills or information had been available to me. I wouldn't have suffered so much. It is only now that I realise how often women go through it, how it is my right and my choice. I don't regret my abortion at all. Now I have an education, degrees, a job and a beautiful family.

in a clinic or hospital with surgery

It was an illegal clinic but at least there were proper doctors performing it. I had no complications but huge emotional scars.

financial issues my education my age (too young or old) problems with my relationship

낙태의 불법 성이 감정에 영향을 미쳤습니까?

Yes. Of course, my guilt was unbearable. I felt like a criminal and had no way to share my burden.

다른 사람들은 당신의 낙태에 대해 어떻게 반응 했습니까?

I didn't really talk about it at the time. Both of my closest friends were supportive. Both were medical students. Another friend was against it and preached on on.

illegal

no religion