Willem Velthoven

I had several abortions. And children too!

Netherlands (출생 Netherlands)

relieved confused sure sad

An abortion means that you let go of possible future. Even when I was very sure about the decision and relieved after the operation, there was also sadness and mourning about it. The sadness about not being able to enjoy this other future too!

Not on my own body so i find it hard to comment.

my age (too young or old) problems with my relationship my personal reasons for not wanting a child

낙태의 불법 성이 감정에 영향을 미쳤습니까?

The fact that abortion is legal and free in the Netherlands allowed us to focus on our own responsability and decision rather than on other troubles around it! We took it for granted and never realised that our parents had to fight for this right and that in so many countries it's not availabe safely.

다른 사람들은 당신의 낙태에 대해 어떻게 반응 했습니까?

All abortions I was involved in were rather private. Not many others reacted to it. In general abortion is considered a common practice in the netherlands. But people don't talk about it.

legal

I have 2 children

no religion