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And I was afraid at first...

2019 Korea Południowa

It was hard. It was really really hard. Emotionally hard and physically hard. But I knew that from the second I got pregnant, this was what I had to do. I believe an abortion can be done nobly, it takes a lot of courage and strength for women who have children and women who confront themselves with abortion, however I am not trying to equate them. Pregnancy is a beautiful thing but within time and choice. I have never held so highly, that right, before this experience.

I am simply not ready. My partner simply is not ready. We were foolish to have not been using contraceptives. And our foolishness did end the beginning of something that could have become a someone. Perhaps this is not the case for others, but this was how I felt and I just want to be honest about it. The thought heaved in my chest, making it hard to breathe sometimes. But I know deeply, and truly, I made the right decision.

中絶の違法性は、あなたの気持ちに影響を与えましたか?

It made me feel stuck at most. Because back home, I could have gotten this done quickly... no shame involved... no second thoughts .... no need for reflection or further investigation of what it means to have an abortion. So I would have evaded this doubt or this thing I had considered dark. However I'm grateful for this waiting period, I confronted myself, my fears, my dreams, the reality of this position. Being in Seoul was difficult though. I read online that in certain clinics doctors were understanding to women who chose abortion, nonetheless I was still nervous to see them. When my partner and I went to get an ultrasound, we just pretended that we were going have the baby. I was afraid of the unlikely event that we would be reported, but mostly I was afraid of the doctor's judgement on me. I knew it was rooted in my head, looking back, I was the only one judging myself.

あなたの中絶に対する他の人々の反応はどうでしたか?

I didn't tell anybody. Especially my father. I felt like telling my dad was the last thing I would do in the choices I had, and they were very limited. I know that he would have been supportive, irrational and maybe mad at first. Yet the idea of telling him gave me feelings of shame and humiliation, I still don't understand why. However my boyfriend was there with me and I told my best friend, she's a nurse. And there care for me was everything.

Jordan

The reviews were scary and I was afraid of what would happen when I took the…

Alexa

Ojala alguna vez me perdones... pero fue. La mejor decisión..

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

mery elizabeth

tomando la decisión de mi vida

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Irina

Cuando miro para atrás, más se afirma la certeza de que hice lo correcto.

Mónica

Aborté por motivos de edad (demasiado joven)y económicos (era estudiante y no…

Sapphire

I had an abortion and it was worth it, absolutely no regrets.

anna dea

aku masih berumur 20thun aku mempunyai pacar usia nya di bawah ku 1 tahun aku…

Embrace So

aku aborsi karena aku tidak ingin mengecewakan banyak orang. pasangan saya sama…

Zoe

I had an abortion. It was a stressful time, I am glad it is all behind me. My…

katrina nicole

the only time i look back is to say thank god

Layla

No dia 28 de outubro de 2018, fazia uma semana que eu vomitava todos os dias ao…

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

Sol

Yo interrumpí un embarazo no deseado.

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

Bobbie

The first time I was too young the next I was old enough to know I had no right…

Aldana

Una decisión que se tiñe de lucha