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2018 Germania

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

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This website gave me the confidence that I could do it. It gave me all the…

Rednwhite

Most difficult choice I’ve ever made

Eunji A

낙태 당시에는 신체적으로 힘들었지만 지금은 컨디션이 평상시로 돌아왔습니다

Dolores Feffer

I had two.

No woman should ever have to justify a dessicion on her own body.

Daniela

My perception of so many things changed a lot with this experience and realised…

Claire

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I had an abortion and I'm not ashamed

Paegan

I had a SUPER LATE abortion.

aileen

I have had two abortions

Lola lopes

É um momento em que ninguém quer te ajudar, você se vê sozinha, confusa, triste

M C

Fiz um aborto de aproximadamente 4 semanas e tomei o cytotec que o amigo da…

Nthati

It was a difficult but necessary choice to have made.

LOLO

Made me who I am today

andrea ka

Yo aborte

Angela

Pregnancy and abortion - what a trip.

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Zuzanna

To była słuszna decyzja.