Ewa Izabela

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I am pro-choice

2005 Regno Unito (nato/a a Poland)

It was a hard and extremely difficult decision, and I had a lot of doubts, trying to find my way. Today I’m sure that was a right decision, and I don’t regret it, but I regret deeply that I had to loose a child. I was sad and crying for long time – as we are sad after someone loved died or left for ever, and we cannot help it. But I was right deciding that I wasn’t able to have a child at that moment.

I had my abortion in London, at Marie Stopes, where everyone was very professional, and supporting. My pregnancy was very early – 3,5 weeks, so I had just the pills. Normally the women have strong cramps and a lot of blood after them, but I didn’t. I was extremely stressed because of whole situation, and the night before taking pills I had cramps, and a lot of blood, and I thought it was a kind of miscarriage. So after pills nothing happened, no cramps, and almost no blood.

I had a boyfriend, who told me he was infertile. We were planning to adopt children in the future. I don’t know if he really meant that, or was just lying, but obviously he wasn’t infertile. When I told him I’m pregnant, he said he wasn’t going to stay with me, and he wanted me to abort, he left and stopped contacting me or answering my calls. I was shocked and destroyed by the offensive and extremely cruel way of treating me by someone, who before pretended to love me. I went through all possibilities to see if I’m able to have this child, and I decided that I’m not strong enough on my own (I don’t have supportive family, and my economical situation was quite bad).

L'illegalità del suo aborto ha influenzato i suoi sentimenti?

I am Polish, and for last 3 years I have been living and working in UK, where the abortion is legal. It was a great stress to face the abortion situation on my own (no support from the partner or family), and if I had an additional pressure from the legal order, I would feel in a lot bigger oppression. It was a great help and relief for me – while undertaking my decision – to know that I have a choice and don’t have to have a baby, and I was lucky not to face this situation in Poland, where the abortion is still illegal.

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

I was quite on my own, and had only one friend, who knew and supported me, which I'm very grateful for.

Kamila

Ożyłam

Angel

Nunca me senti tão sozinha

Zuzanna

To była słuszna decyzja.

Weronika

Dzien w którym potwierdzila sie moja ciaza był jak wyrocznia... Mam dużo swoich…

Angy :)

I decided to have an abortion, it wasnt easy but it was the best decision

Madison

Una lucha constante.

Natalia

La decisión de abortar no es nada fácil, en realidad por mi mente deabundan…

Valentina

Le pedí que me dejara...

Me había embarazado antes y había abortado, desde ese…

Jess

This is something that was necessary for me but most definitely the hardest and…

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

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Aborté a mis 18, a unos cuantos meses de mi graduación de preparatoria.
Me…

katrina nicole

the only time i look back is to say thank god

Sol

Yo interrumpí un embarazo no deseado.

Suzanne

I had an abortion

Frances

Feeling like myself again

Angelica

Order right away. Pill will arive after 10 days.

Jamie

And I am so happy! I am so lucky that I had the choice to have an abortion! The…

Briana

Experiencia dificil.. Pero inolvidable

Carolina Posso

I had an abortion porque me sentía sola, sentía que todo el mundo se iba a…