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2019 Finlandia

I have a bit of a nihilist/whatever approach to life. I think it's fascinating but I wouldn't be able to give a good life to a little one as I'm already struggling myself.

First, they gave me one pill to swallow at the clinic with water to stop the fetus from growing. There was another one as well according to them, but it was much smaller. They decided it's ok to proceed as normal. They gave me pain killers and the four abortion pills to use after two days (and minipills for getting prepared for the IUD). I went home, the bleeding already started on the day after that at around 5pm. I had told them I had an adult with me but in reality he had to go to work and I already knew what to do. I ate breakfast, took the painkillers, waited for 30min, and put the four pills under my tongue since I was already bleeding. My stomach started to feel queasy, I went to the bathroom and threw up. The pills also made me poop and i felt dizzy and the cramps were crazy. Then I went under a hot shower, threw up again, and just laid down as comfortably as I could. After changing positions for about 40 minutes, I felt much better and the fetus came out. It was clearly at 7 weeks, just like I had been told. I was fascinated since this was the first time I saw a real fetus.

Come hanno reagito le altre persone al suo aborto?

I have only told my partner and my sister. They're supportive, but my partner was embarrassed since he feels like it's his fault I have to go through this again. Yes, this has happened before. I'm getting an IUD soon.

Suzanne

I made the best decision for me

Ana

Fiz um aborto e não me arrependo. O meu desejo é que todas as mulheres tenham…

Manuela L

E não me arrependo.

Daniela

Tengo una hija de 4 años, pero aun asi yo aborte este año.

Elizabeth

I had an abortion.

Fran

YO DECIDÍ

Katy Nunes

Meu corpo: minhas regras. Eu decido se e quando quero ter filho.

Guid

Não me arrependo!

Ananda

No es mi primera vez, es mi segunda vez que lo hago y no me arrepiento.

Jaq

I was 21, and nowhere near ready or willing to carry and birth a child because…

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

Kamila

Ożyłam

Ella

I was so scared but it was right and I know deep in my heart now.

Frances

Feeling like myself again

laura

Mi experiencia

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.