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Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

2016 Regno Unito

Sometimes I feel selfish, but then I stop and tell myself, no it’s my body and my life. I don’t regret what I did and need to stop letting the what ifs get into my head!!

The process itself was straight forward in terms of how everything went about. But for me mentally and physically it was horrendous. I knew as soon as I found out I was pregnant that I didn’t want the baby. I wasn’t ready. I’d just handed my notice in at work and my partner and i were going travelling later that year for 12 months. Like I said, the process was straightforward. I met with my GP who gave me the number of a clinic I had to ring. I made an appointment, had a scan and discussed options. The nursing staff were incredibly friendly and non judgemental. It felt like a very warm environment. My first option was the pill. I could have taken one then and come back the following day and taken another one, but because I’d already lied to work about where I was, the fact I worked an hour away and the fact I was a teacher, I couldn’t go through with it. So because of time restraints my second option was minor surgery to remove the fetus. It was painful, and both during and after. After a few hours there was a lot of a blood and the cramps were horrendous. There is still a stigma around abortion and because of that I’ve lived with this secret for almost 2 years. Because of the stigma I couldn’t tell my boss so I had to go back to work the next day and teach 32 ten year olds whilst I was in incredible pain and still miscarrying.

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The only person who knows about the abortion was my partner at the time. Something I’ve found difficult since I made my decision was coping with the fact he didn’t want me to go through with it. It’s something he held against me for the rest of our relationship.

Lorelai

Basically I found out two weeks ago that I was pregnant, to my shock and awe…

Lauren Jackson

I got pregnant while in college in Tennessee in 1976 and had an illegal…

Tiffany

I am still healing from my decision - it really is a wide range of emotions.

Gaby

Força, tudo que precisa!

Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

Ana Monteiro

Primeiramente, gostaria de dizer para você que procura por esses depoimentos

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

Caroline

Never had any regrets

Birdy <3

MY BODY, MY CHOICE!

baby t

i had 2 abortions first 1 when i was 16 i knew i was ready to have a child or…

Stephanie

at just 19 years old.

Bree

It was the right decision just hard than i thought it would to deal with

Jéssica

RELATO DE UM ABORTO BEM SUCEDIDO DE UMA MULHER SEM NOME:
Nunca pensei que…

Manuella Silva

Grávida aos 18.


Olá. Vim contar pra voces minha experiencia com aborto.
Eu ficava…

Constanza

Aborto seguro, entorno amoroso

Ania anonimowa

Odpowiednia pora.