K.

Ceritakan Kisahmu

2018 Jerman

After the abortion I was just relived and I felt empowered - it was about my life. Before the abortion I was very afraid, I felt irresponsible, a little stuipid and trapped. The latter was the worst.

The abortion itself was physically very painful for me, but that didn't matter at all (giving birth is probably worse). However, the entire process with obligatory consulation was awful. Although in Germany the law requires, that the obligatory consulation has to be objective, my consultant was a strict Christian who tried to convince me and my partner to have a baby. She was manipulative and had a very strange image of women in general. Although the clinic staff was not as extreme as her, they were very disrespectful. The entire process was really bad for me and I cried a lot - not because of the abortion, but because of the people and how they dealt with me.

I generally do not plan to have kids, being a mother is not for me

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I didn't tell my family, since they are very conservative. However, all my friends at least accepted it, although some of them were a little shocked. I was very open about it, because even in Germany I feel that there is a huge stigma about it. Although I am a defender of radical reproductive justice, I felt affected by that stigma, so I told my friends only AFTER the abortion.

Valéria

Espero que minha experiência possa ajudar quem vai passar pela mesma situação

inteldeath

It was the right decision, and it is my choice.

Hattie Ladd

I have had two abortions. The first one was when I was 20 and the second when I…

M. .

Fiz um aborto e me sinto aliviada. Agradeço muito a toda a equipe do Women on…

michel

i'm irish, i had an abortion while living in the netherlands.

Daniela

No era el momento, no me arrepiento.

Andrea

And it was just fine. I had just turned 20, and was living in a rented room in…

Cristina

No fue bueno pero fue lo mejor.

Ruth

Zaczełao sie (wiadomo) od dwóch kresek i przerażenia. Szukałam możliwości…

Sylvie Shene

A Life-Saving Experience

Ema

Stało się, nie udany związek, grube problemy z aktualnym jeszcze partnerem a i…

lena0101

żaden powód do dumy, że wpadłam, ale że sie zdecydowałąm na aborcję, to jestem…

Nami Tibbers

Não vi outra opção. Então tomei coragem e optei por um aborto.

laura

Mi experiencia

Clarice

Sempre fui a favor do aborto, não por uma questão feminista, mas por acreditar…

Lola lopes

É um momento em que ninguém quer te ajudar, você se vê sozinha, confusa, triste

Abbie

I had an abortion and don't regret it.