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Don’t confuse ‘what ifs’ with regret.

2016 Britania Raya

Sometimes I feel selfish, but then I stop and tell myself, no it’s my body and my life. I don’t regret what I did and need to stop letting the what ifs get into my head!!

The process itself was straight forward in terms of how everything went about. But for me mentally and physically it was horrendous. I knew as soon as I found out I was pregnant that I didn’t want the baby. I wasn’t ready. I’d just handed my notice in at work and my partner and i were going travelling later that year for 12 months. Like I said, the process was straightforward. I met with my GP who gave me the number of a clinic I had to ring. I made an appointment, had a scan and discussed options. The nursing staff were incredibly friendly and non judgemental. It felt like a very warm environment. My first option was the pill. I could have taken one then and come back the following day and taken another one, but because I’d already lied to work about where I was, the fact I worked an hour away and the fact I was a teacher, I couldn’t go through with it. So because of time restraints my second option was minor surgery to remove the fetus. It was painful, and both during and after. After a few hours there was a lot of a blood and the cramps were horrendous. There is still a stigma around abortion and because of that I’ve lived with this secret for almost 2 years. Because of the stigma I couldn’t tell my boss so I had to go back to work the next day and teach 32 ten year olds whilst I was in incredible pain and still miscarrying.

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The only person who knows about the abortion was my partner at the time. Something I’ve found difficult since I made my decision was coping with the fact he didn’t want me to go through with it. It’s something he held against me for the rest of our relationship.

Freedom77

I was lucky enough to be able to have an NHS surgical termination at 8 weeks.

Camila

Yo aborté los miedos, la pena, el vacío y el amor.

Constanza

Aborto seguro, entorno amoroso

Butterfly

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Tamsen Reid

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Mulher

Uma escolha pra vida!

Anônimo

Gostaria de começar dizendo que deu tudo certo!
Quando realizei meu aborto…

Aleja12-09

Por siempre y para siempre en mi mente.

Xara

I had Three Abortions.

Bee

I felt very guilty but relieved . I was way too young to be a mother.

Grace Grace

Y no existe arrepentimiento.

Emilamontreal

J'ai avorté suite à ma grossesse arrêtée à 8 semaines

Ma N

Y fue un proceso duro física y emocionalmente.

Nathalia

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Charlie

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Magda

Może jestem bez serca ale niczego nie żałuję. ja chyba nie nadaję się na matkę…

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I had 4 abortions and I’m not ashamed

Brenda

Having an abortion was the right thing for my family.

Laura

Fue la mejor decicion para todos pero eso no cambia que yo amaba a mi bebe