Emma

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I got pregnant the first time I had sex. I was just 18 and knew nothing. I was desperately in love with the father, who was older than me. I knew we should be using a condom, I even said that to him the night I lost my virginity, but he still had sex with me without one.
He also had a fiancée. I thought he would leave her for me, I was stupid and believed every word he said.

I just knew I couldn’t have a baby, I was barely an adult myself and I was scared. I made up my mind I had to have an abortion, it was my only option.

After I had the procedure I felt relief. Then when I got back home the father rang me and told me it was over between us. It shattered me. He had a baby with his fiancée a year later.

Twenty years on and I still feel regret about my decision. I feel as though it may have been my only chance to have a child and the whole experience has really fucked me up.

Of course when I consider the situation I think I made the right choice but it doesn’t make the pain any less.

2000 Australia

The awful thing is your feelings can change as you get older. I never thought I would feel so sad about having an abortion when I was so convinced it was the right thing to do when I was young.

I was scared as hell and thought I may actually die. I realise now I must have been in severe shock. All I remember was walking down a dark corridor into a surgical room, then I remember lying down with my legs in stirrups, counting back from ten. Then I woke up and some nurse was checking a pad between my legs to see how bad the bleeding was. It is literally like a nightmare that happened to someone else.

I wanted to go to University

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

No.

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

My family was very supportive.

B.

Uma decisão que precisa ser feita rápida porém pensada

Livia

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M C

Fiz um aborto de aproximadamente 4 semanas e tomei o cytotec que o amigo da…

Camila

E foi uma das decisões mais difíceis da minha vida .
Oi meninas,eu tenho 26 anos…

Cristina Lima

Fiz um aborto.

Javi

La historia, tal cual, detrás mi aborto

Magda

To była moja decyzja!

Jillybean

Women's bodies belong only to us. Men, families, society, have no right to…

Vivi Lili

La vdd no creo que sea malo soy una mujer casada y tengo un precioso hijo pero…

An

A los 19 años , no me arrepiento de haber tomado esta desicion. Fue un…

Nih

Fiz um aborto com 13 semanas , não se desespere vai dar tudo certo !

Teaser

Nunca hubiera querido estar en esa encrucijada

a.

Początek był raczej standardowy - spóźnił mi się okres, zrobiłam test ciążowy

chanel

I did it because as a female that is my right to control my body no man or…

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

Yukino

Yo aborte

Daniela

Y lo volvería a hacer, habia terminado con mi ex pololoy el era super…

Ivana

I had an abortion and never talked about it with anyone