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I was extremely lucky to find a safe place for my abortion.

2007 Fülöp-szigetek

I had been to several OB-GYNs in hospitals. I told them I didn't want to and could not have a child but of course, they couldn't do anything because of the law here. Finally, at around 7 wks, I went to an NGO with a couple of female relatives. I felt extremely lucky because one of my relatives works in women's rights so we were able to go to an NGO with a real doctor and a counselor who interviewed me to make sure I was firm in my decision. They made me feel like they understood my predicament as I was young and very incapable of having a child. It's still highly illegal in this country so they were all understandably cautious and destroyed my ultrasound pictures and records. The procedure itself hurt and lasted maybe 20 minutes. I wasn't under general anesthesia but the nurses held my hand and told me to breathe. It felt good having all these women surrounding me. Afterwards, I was able to rest for a while in a lying-in room. My relationship with the father was no good though it lasted a couple more years (covertly) after my abortion. I'm happy I had it and I have no regrets over having it done. I only wish I could have spared my family the heartache and trouble.

Vajon az abortuszod törvénytelensége befolyásolta-e az érzéseidet?

Yes. I carried a lot of anger and guilt over it because I didn't feel it was fair that only a few people could afford or even find a safe place to carry out their abortion. And I was one of those few.

Hogyan reagáltak mások az abortuszodra?

People were supportive/indifferent/sad. Only a few knew because it's illegal here

Emmy Smith

It was the best decision of my life

Maria F M B

Yo aborte: Hoy en dia es difícil enfrentar la sanción moral que existe en…

Andrea

It's your choice.

Anônima

Eu sobrevivi, você também vai

Estefanía

Si se lo pudiera decir a alguien sin que me juzgue no me sentiría así

Eléonore Delmas

I had an abortion

Daniela Moraes

É fácil defender o aborto das outras. Difícil é decidir quando a gente precisa…

Julia

Uratowałam sobie życie

Lilian Godfrey

I had an abortion twice this year. One was around August, and the second today…

Rocio Beron

Tome mi decisión y estoy mejor haciendo lo que quiero y siento!!

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

Julia

Y fue lo mejor

Agnieszka

Miałam aborcję - nie żałuję

Marcella

Aos 18 anos tive minha primeira experiência com meu namorado,Como tdo…

Dina Wood

I had an abortion.It was illegal in the United States at the time, but I was…