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Made me who I am today

2006 Estados Unidos

I have many conflicting feelings. In many ways, by getting pregnant, I realized how much I want children, a family, as one of my lifelong goals. I knew I could not provide the type of home I want to raise a family in during that at that time in my life. In many ways my inner dissidence about my decision over the last 10 years has caused me emotional strife and turmoil. Sometimes questioning, what if? I don't expect that to ever change, as I feel I can not openly mourn the loss of the little one that I know I someday want. But with time I realized...why put a question mark where god put a period?

I had a surgical abortion and something went wrong with the first attempt, so I had to come back one week later to have the procedure repeated. The doctor told me it was because I had a "heart shaped uterus." The week in between was filled with anxiety, guilt, and fear that I would never be able to bear children in the future. Once it was all done, I was absolutely relieved. I learned actually how strong I could be, and about how I do desire children, when I am ready for them.

I had just turned 18 and graduated from high school. I had plans of attending University in the fall, and saw my dreams crashing down with this unplanned pregnancy. I could not bear the idea of having a child without having enough money in my bank account to pay rent, and without the education to get a well paying job. I want a child when I am able to provide a life with opportunity, with stability and love. At that time in my life I was just learning what being an adult was about.

¿Cómo reaccionaron otras personas a tu aborto?

I kept my abortion secret from my family and most of my friends for years. Two of my girlfriends who knew took accompanied me to Planned Parenthood. One said, "this is what you need to do for yourself."

Jes

No fue facil pero lo hise y me ha hido muy bien! Fue mi mejor decición!

Bárbara

Fiz o procedimento ontem e quero contar com riqueza de detalhes , por isso…

Jess

I was let down by birth control and had two abortions. During my second…

Mariana Leitão

A tal história do “ engravidei por acidente” é real!

lolita

fui libre respecto esta decision

Frida Ku

La experiencia que me cambio.

Charlotte Sigler

I had an abortion

maria maria

No tome la mejor desición, hice lo que pude

G.

Zawsze miałam nieregularny okres, także tydzień spóźnienia nie dawał mi…

Samanta

Uma escolha difícil.

A alexandra

Mi futuro, mi familia

josie

I had an abortion and now feel I have 10kgs off my shoulders alone, a little…

Daisy

Miałam aborcję. I nie jestem z tego dumna.
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Zosia

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Leah Frida

Yo aborté! porque es mi derecho!

aileen

I have had two abortions

Jude

....because my pregnancy was unexpected and I did not want another child. My…

Danna Elissa

ABORTAR PARA SER "LIBRES" NUEVAMENTE

thya thya

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