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Unexpected feelings

2019 Vereinigte Staaten

For an unexplainable reason I'm hurt by this loss. For some reason flushing down the toilet (literally), what could have been my baby felt wrong. I never dreamed I would think of an unthinking, unfeeling, thing the size of a raspberry, as .. . Deserving. As needing taken care of. As deserving not to be just thrown away. I totally respect everyone's choice but for some reason I grew an attachment to that thing inside of me. I knew I was pregnant before the missed period. I felt my body change and at first I felt punished. Trapped. scared. I was so worried about how to make it stop and get back to my old self I didn't realize I was also subconsciously feeling every second of that pregnancy. I guess it left some weird imprint on me. I don't know how to tell my partner that it still hurts me. He doesnt get it when I try to tell him that it was a huge experience for me and I need time to heal. I wish I was one of those people who just go on with their life like nothing happened but ive always been pretty sensitive

I had a medical abortion. With a heating pad and tramadol, the pain was bearable. The bleeding stopped after a week. Going back to work was extremely hard for me at first as my job is very physically demanding but I got through it.

Hat die Illegalität Ihres Schwangerschaftsabbruchs Ihre Gefühle beeinflusst?

The protesters who were outside of every clinic visit, yelling "repent" and "it's not too late" with their giant pictures of fetuses and whatnot. .. to the recent string of abortion/birth control bans and criminalization. I was so afraid I wouldn't have access to choice (I do thanks to the acula and pp and organizations like women have options who helped me AFFORD it). And after the abortion I feel less angry at those ignorant prolifers, I feel more.. grief. Which is their objective I'm sure. ..

Wie haben andere Menschen auf Ihre Abtreibung reagiert?

Indifferent/ nonchalant. My partner and I have always agreed to an abortion in case an accident ever happened.. and it did. I'm not brave enough or ready to tell my mother. I need time. I never dreamed it would affect me this way. I drunkenly told one of my few female friends. I work in a male dominated field and most of my friends are male. I don't think any of them could react in a way that would be comforting or worth validation as they can't understand. So I haven't told anyone really. Guess that's why I'm here.

Ania Kijawska

Mam dziecko, dom, męża zdecydowałam się na aborcję.

Annelise

A maternidade como função obrigatória não é maternidade. Não é linda. Ser mãe…

Meaghan

I want to change the world.

Abree

Medical abortion at 9wks 5days

pam carol

Yo aborte

Mari

Fiz a melhor escolha.

Sierra

I had to get an abortion after my Skyla IUD was placed improperly or slipped. I…

Luciana

Hace exactamente 1 año y dos meses. Arranque el 2017 con todo. Supe el día que…

Paula Paula

Miałam aborcję... to była trudna decyzja, nigdy nie zapomnę...

violet

Zdarzały mi się już wcześniej spóźnione okresy, które skutkowały paniką i…

Jamie

And I am so happy! I am so lucky that I had the choice to have an abortion! The…

Meg

My abortion was NOT THAT PAINFUL. Don't believe in the horror stories!

Sabine Ryan

It's not as bad as you think. Please read my story!

Vanessa

yo conoci a los 14 años a un vigilante que trabajaba donde mi mama el era super…

Natália Sampaio

Abortei sim! Não foi fácil. foi um dos momentos mas difíceis da minha vida, mas…

Maria

La decisión más difícil de mi vida

Vittoria

Me siento vacía ...

Fernanda Santos

Tentativa de aborto/Gravides tubária Sem saber!!! 7 semanas!
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